Country Diary Of A Twenty First Century Lady

Titus Two Wives & Daughter's Valentine's Class Coming Soon!

2012-01-24T06:50:00.000-08:00

Valentine’s Chocolate Tea!

Join us for our Titus Two Wives and Daughters Valentine's Class!

Delight yourself in the Lord with a sweetness of spirit as you meet with other Titus Two wives and daughters! Learn what it means to be a Titus Two woman in "Today's" culture and how you can be an excellent wife, mother and home manager!

Our special Valentines guest Mrs. Lydia Sherman "Lady Lydia" will share some thoughts on how to "love" our Titus Two calling even for women who live in harder regions of the country or with husbands who have difficult occupations.

The Titus Two Women will be sharing:

• Creative & Effective ways to “Love To Your Husband”
• The Art of Homemaking: “A Place for Everything -Everything In Its Place” & “Beauty Is A Duty”
• Valentine’s~ Craft & Gifts Ideas
• Creating “Healthy Starter Foods”
• Conduct & Manners~ All Children Should Know!

Enjoy great fellowship, learn new ideas and enjoy delightfully delicious Valentine's Tea!

Join us February 3rd from 1-4 pm hosted by the Hollinger Family

artwork by allposters.com

Wives and Daughter’s Winter Snowflake Tea

2012-01-09T23:24:00.000-08:00

The “Titus Two Wives and Daughter’s

Winter Snowflake Tea” was a great success!!

Laughter and happy conversations filled the air as the women joined together in one accord for a higher purpose. They came from various locations, churches and backgrounds as they strengthened one another giving encouragement to their biblical calling. The “Titus Two Wives and Daughters” are a solid support group serving one another to better love our husbands, love our children and share wisdom in the “Art of Homemaking”.

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"The aged women likewise, that they be in behavior as becomes holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things; That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands,

that the word of God be not blasphemed.”

Glittering snowflakes embellished the room. Candles were lit, as the soft music set the tone of our class. The Titus Two daughter’s brought homemade pumpkin and chocolate bars and beautifully designed cookies. A winter wonderland was designed by an eleven year old daughter who stacked her cookie cut frosted branches creating a beautiful white tree. Turkey raspberry cream cheese tea sandwiches set upon a three tiered stand and a snow filled mountain bundt cake topped off our Winter Tea! White roses with china dishes graced our tea table bringing elegance to our special gathering. It is such a delightful afternoon as women were lifted up, strengthened and refreshed as Christian wives and daughters.

Like, a snowflake has its own unique design,

God honoring women, have a distinct calling
which they are commanded to fulfill.

This is not an option!

Mrs. Sherman, a seasoned Pastors wife who has been in ministry for over fifty years, shared words of wisdom as she beautifully articulated God’s calling for Christian women.

Though we may live in difficult regions of the country or world, Gods word still applies. Whether we are farmers, ranchers, loggers or fishermen’s wives living in various circumstances that may seem challenging, we are given the same mandate.

Even widowed or abandoned wives have a biblical directive. The Lord understands the hardships some will bear when He designed the highest, most fulfilling plan for women.

Mrs. Cutter taught on how to organize our homes

Mrs. Hollinger taught “The Dinner Hour” creating a peaceful, low stress experience for your family's special time together.

Mrs. Herndon taught how to make "Butter" and products for Dairy"

Today’s homemaking troubles are small in comparison to our Mother’s, Grandmother’s or Great Grandmother’s especially those living in biblical times. Though we have our own obstacles to overcome, we are asked to trust in God’s plan as we fulfill our sacred mission. This is meant to be accomplished within the authority and sphere God places us in. Many times women try to run away from difficulties because they are discouraged and afraid things will not turn out the way they hope or plan. They look elsewhere for fulfillment and get busy with other activities, people and places. Over the next few months we will be addressing many of the areas wives and daughters struggle to overcome and give practical lessons to be successful “Home Managers”.

“We are still asked to trust Christ’s plan, while realizing our sacred mission.

This can be accomplished exactly where we are and within the sphere we are placed.”

"I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me."

King James Version (KJV)

Artwork by Robertduncan.com

Titus Two Class Coming January 2012

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Attention "Wives and Daughters from Girls to Grandmothers"

Are you a Titus Two Woman? Are you a seasoned homemaker, with many years of:

Marriage?

Being a "Home Manager"?

And now have grown children?

Here is your opportunity to fulfill your Titus Two Mandate.

"Older women likewise are to be reverent in their behavior, not malicious gossips nor enslaved to much wine, teaching what is good, so that they may encourage the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, to be sensible, pure, workers at home, kind, being subject to their own husbands, so that the word of God will not be dishonored. Titus 2:3-5

Mrs. Brian Hollinger is opening her home for hospitality and a support group for Titus Two women. The older women will also be sharing their experience, skills and tips as wives, mothers and homemakers with each other and passing on their knowledge to the younger women and girls in this wonderful class starting

January 6th 2012!

"The Titus Two Wives and Daughters" will be offering a series on:

“The Art of Homemaking” and “Setting Your House in Order”

Learn in a workable way, the tried and tested principles of success in homemaking, the ones which are practiced by all good Home Managers.

~In our January class you will learn~

"Your Unique Design” as a Christian woman.

Receiving practical lessons in:

"Organization"

For 2012~tips and ideas

"The Dinner Hour"

how to create a peaceful and a relaxing mealtime
including helpful manners for children

"Homemade Dairy Products"

how to make homemade butter, cheese and other items for your family

Enjoy great fellowship and lovely afternoon tea!

One woman said, "This material on homemaking should be required for every bride, right along with the marriage license."

Another comment, "I'd give almost anything if I've heard this almost ten or fifteen years ago."

Ladies, it's not too late to learn a good thing, especially if you are young at heart.

Join us for our "Once a Month" Titus Two Group

Starting: January 6th
Time: 1-4pm
Contact: Mrs. Hollinger at holling89@aol.com

Be sure to share this with your friends and family so they can join too! Sign up at this website and you will be posted about our classes.

This class is free of charge. We appreciate and welcome your desserts or snacks but it is not required. We want you come "as is" and be blessed! We look forward to seeing you next Friday!

(artwork by allposters, art.com)

May the Lord Bless You!

2011-12-26T20:40:00.000-08:00

From Our Family To Yours!

We hope your Christmas was meaningful and joyful this season.

May the Lord bless your 2012 New Year!

Our family likes a good laugh.

Here's a message to grandpa that went a little haywire!

"For I know the plans that I have for you, declares the Lord,
plans for good and not for calamity to give you a future and a hope.
Then you will call upon Me and come and pray to Me, and I will listen to you.
You will seek Me and find Me when you search for Me with all your heart"

Jeremiah
29:11-12

Creative Canning~Gift Giving "Apple Butter" Jam

2011-12-24T23:31:00.000-08:00

Made from Home Means Made with Love

Part 1

Canning is economical and another way to express sincere appreciation if given as gifts. This Holiday Season, our Titus Two Young Women and I decided to create gifts that have time, effort and love put into each jar. We made homemade "Apple Butter" jams and we learned a great deal. Here is our very first attempt.

Part 2

Finding the right recipe will make all the difference.

Part 3

Techniques in preparing apples while boiling before canning.

Part 4

Ideas for saving time with "Creative Canning".

Part 5

Thinking outside the box experimenting to create natural pectin.

Part 6

Here are some ideas to create a stress free space while canning with easy ways to keep your kitchen in order.

Part 7

Innovative recipe ideas and learning how to flexible with challenges in the kitchen.

Part 8

Adding the right spices can make a big difference in taste and saftey tips.

Part 9

The final phase placing "Apple Butter" in jars with lids slightly tightened before placing in the canner. The jars are immersed in water while boiling per suggested time in recipe. Then we sampled our work with a relaxing warm apple cinnamon drink.

Creating Memories While Canning Part 6 & 7

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Our final thoughts after completing our applesauce canning project. What a delightful adventure to share with others. We hoped you enjoyed it as much as we did!

Taste Testers share!

Be sure and join us in January when the "Titus Two Wives and Daughter's" class begins. We will be studying the "Art of Homemaking", "Organizing", "Making Healthy Butter, Cheese and other Products from Raw Milk", "The Dinner Hour" creating a peaceful dinner and "Twenty-Three Rules of Conduct for Children" basic etiquette.

May the Lord bless you as you seek to be godly women who honor Him in all you do.

Creating Memories While Canning Part 5

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When canning with younger children, be sure and consider their age and maturity level. If your children listen attentively and are cooperative, you will avoid many possible hazards in the kitchen. The youngest girl in our kitchen this day was eleven and very responsible. I believe in teaching young ladies as early as possible the "Art of Homemaking". It is great to have them work along side you while watching each step of the way. I think it is important to have an adult or an older experienced daughter working with appliances, sharp knives and a hot stove until you are confident the younger girls have a proven understanding of all the saftey rules. Children will make many mistakes while they are learning so to ensure their protection, keep from expecting too much. If you think ahead, consider all the possiblities, then you will wisely discern how much responsibility you should give the younger helpers. Parents sometimes expect a child to remember everything taught right away and this often leads to mistakes. A responsible Home Manager will understand the necessity of repetition with younger children and give encouragement to them while explaining things over and over again. With a joyful, patient heart you can create an uplifting and joyful experience. Perfection belongs to Christ alone so let us enjoy "Creating Memories" with a loving spirit, filled with understanding, mercy and grace.

Creating Memories While Canning Part 4

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To Sugar or not to Sugar that is the question?

Here we discuss some options while canning. As you can see we are really enjoying our experience and you will too when you learn a new skill with your family or a friend.

As Titus Two "Home Manager's" we are always open to new ideas in making our homes run efficient, effective and peaceful. Canning can be a great way to save money if you are able to glean the produce yourself whether it be on your own property or another. Though it may take more time and effort, with a good attitude you can make great strides in cutting costs in your family budget while also making making wonderful memories at the same time. This also makes a wonderful gift. People really appreciate something that took time, mixed with lots of joy and love in it! A pretty jar of a homemade gift is always the best present for those who appreciate homespun products!

"And whatsoever ye do, do it heartily, as to the Lord, and not unto men; Knowing that of the Lord ye shall receive the reward of the inheritance: for ye serve the Lord Christ"

Colossians 3:23-24

Be sure and join us for the next "Titus Two Wives and Daughter's" class coming soon!

Creating Memories While Canning Part 3

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"The only man who never makes a mistake

is the man who never does anything."

- Theodore Roosevelt

Now we have finished boiling the apples and moving along very nicely to the next step. Here are some tips to prepare your apples and proper preparation of the canning jars.

What I love about developing a new skill is having fun while learning. It is such a great opportunity to stretch out of what is comfortable and stay flexible. Being able to overcome with a good attitude and laugh at yourself is very important in learning how to do anything new.

Creating Memories While Canning Part 2

2011-12-18T00:44:00.001-08:00

It's not too late to learn a good thing, especially if you are young at heart

Titus Two women love to learn new skills in homemaking! It is so much joy to learn with family and friends who make life a blessing. These two young ladies have attended our "Titus Two Wives and Daughters" class over the years with great enthusiasm as you will see in our video. Here is Part 2 in learning how to can applesauce. We hope you will enjoy this series as much as we did!

Next month we will be beginning a new series on “The Art of Homemaking” and “Setting Your House in Order”. We hope you join us for great fellowship, excellent teaching and a lovely afternoon tea. May we be inspired in our calling as "Wives and Daughters" to be all we are meant to be!

Be sure and visit again soon as we continue our series

"Creating Memories While Canning"

Creating Memories While Canning Part 1

2011-12-18T00:14:00.000-08:00

Learning a new skill can be so much fun when you do it together with others!

Here I am with my friends Miss Melissa Cherry and her sister Bethany working on Titus Two Projects to enhance our homemaking skills! This video was totally spontaneous and unscripted as we journey together in canning applesauce. We are completely new at this and had a great time learning along the way. Hope you enjoy this video and share your comments as we discover ways to build new skills as Titus Two women.

Starting in January "The Titus Two Wives and Daughters" will be offering an inspiring series on “The Art of Homemaking” and “Setting Your House in Order”. Learn in a workable way, the tried and tested principles of success in home management. The Titus Two women will also be sharing new skills, tips and ideas every month. Come join us starting January 2012!

Titus Two Class Coming January 2012

2011-12-10T16:02:00.000-08:00

You are the heart of the home, a treasure above all others.

You are a jewel that is irreplaceable.

Your family adores you and they need you!

Is this how you feel about yourself? Do you understand your full worth or is your value based on what others say about you?

Attention "Wives and Daughters from Girls to Grandmothers"

This coming January 2012 we will be resuming our monthly Titus Two classes with a new series called "The Art of Homemaking". We will receive refreshing teaching on "Setting Our House in Order" with practical skills and tips from seasoned Titus Two Women. We will be learning about our "Unique Design" as Christian women and enjoy great fellowship with a lovely afternoon tea.

This course teaches in a very workable way, the fundamental principles of success in Homemaking, the ones which are practiced by all good Home Managers. Once more, it includes the answers to many, many questions and dozens of helpful ideas which have been gleaned through eight years of research and testing from over 100,000 women from coast to coast who studied these principles and proven their value. We are delighted to say that we are offering these helpful ideas which have inspired and motivated thousands of women to become better homemakers.

One woman said, "This material on homemaking should be required for every bride, right along with the marriage license.

Another comment, "I'd give almost anything if I've heard this almost ten or fifteen years ago."

Ladies, it's not too late to learn a good thing, especially if you are young at heart.

"You are a valued citizen of the world because what you do in your home eventually effects the world. Now that's a staggering thought isn't it? But it's true. When you make a home that is strong and good, the world becomes that much stronger and better."
Art Linkletter

artwork by allposters

Like Apples of Gold....

2011-12-07T04:09:00.001-08:00

Like apples of gold in settings of silver

Is a word spoken in right circumstances.

Proverbs 25:11

My good friend and Titus Two Team Assistant Miss Melissa Cherry and I spent the Fall reviewing materials to consider for our upcoming "Art of Homemaking" course beginning January 2012. We are taking some great ideas we learned and we are excited about all the women who are going to participate!

Here we are peeling and packaging some of our bounty. We plan to practice canning this coming week and creating Christmas Jellies too!

We've been having a great time making homemade baked goods this Holiday Season. Our family found some wild apple trees and took a lovely crisp trek through the forest to harvest our bounty. With an old fashioned peeler we cranked out and packaged many apples for special pies and holiday desserts.

My son and I found an "Oldtime" recipe for creating homemade instant hot cocoa. Along with Candy Cane Lane tea, it is one of his favorite hot drinks. I like to take Saturday mornings to make him an extra special breakfast and spend quality time together. We are so blessed that his dad works at home and gives him a great deal of time during the week to build him up as a man. They do a lot of father-son outdoor activities together. As a homeschooling family, young men need to have more time with their dads as they transition from boyhood into a young man. So on Saturday mornings during the Fall-Winter Season, I have the joy of making memorable projects with my son. We had a nice time putting all the ingredients together into Christmas jars, then sampling our work. Yes, my taste tester says it is "delicious!" Now, whenever we want to serve a quick, satisfying hot drink, it is ready to go with those special treats from the apples we picked this past Fall. Mmmm good!

~May this Season bring you many happy memories~

Growing In Wisdom, Stature and Favor

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The best environment for sons and daughters to develop the character needed to overcome the difficult challenges of life, is within their own home. These soveriegn "Life Lessons" are the preparation for the prerequisites for success. If these opportunities are embraced, they will be the chisseling tools needed to produce young leaders and hero's of tomorrow. Biblical examples such as David, Joseph, Esther and Ruth all came about from young people trusting God to work through the incredible hardships they were placed. They received excellent training at home. They did not run away from their family obligations or their limited situations. They were equipt at home to then face their destiny which paved the way for young men and women to follow. These overcomers are the brightest stars, the ones to admire and emulate.

A young person will become all they were meant to be, if they learn to trust God at home. They will discover themselves while developing into mature adults. If they trust the Lord in their day to day challenges, they will be blessed with wisdom, understanding and maturity in all aspects of life and learn how to develop successful relationships. As they embrace the Providence of God, they will see Him working through their imperfect families~ the exact ones He chose for them. Very few young adults understand that these difficult "life lessons" have to be learned no matter what! They can learn it the best way at home or the do it the "hard way".

Those who face the challenges at home by staying the course will become the knights and maidens who win the big battles of life. They are not faint hearted but shining examples of strength of character and determination.

May you rise up to resist the temptation of "Jonah" who ran away from where he was placed. May you avoid the consequences of a "self serving" mindset which is actually "self destructive" sabotaging your own future. May you experience a life which brings joy to your family as you continue to subject yourself to them, bringing comfort to your parents in their elder years and receive a great vision for future generations.

"And He went down with them and came to Nazareth, and He continued in subjection to them; and His mother treasured all these things in her heart. And Jesus kept increasing in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and men." Luke 2:51-52

Paintings by William Adolphe Bouguereau and Norman Rockwell

Looking Through The Lens of Honesty

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If you were on an island with only the Bible. Without outside books, networks, influence of others or even personal thoughts to guide you.
What would your life look like?

If you looked through the lens of honesty, what would you see? wouldn't your life be different?
Now, let's consider what unmarried women did with their lives? The bible clearly shows the "normative" for unmarried women was to remain under their father's covering at home until marriage. They served their families, the church, the elderly and the needy within their communities as unto the Lord. If we are to live our lives according to God's word, then are we calling scripture too narrow, outdated and irrelevant in today's society when it comes to our daughter's future?

"Remember them which have the rule over you, who have spoken unto you the word of God: whose faith follow, considering the end of their conversation.

Jesus Christ the same yesterday, and to day, and for ever.
Hebrews 13: 7-8

Are we justifying ourselves and our decisions by saying that our life or our daughter's have a different direction they should go? Are we thinking there are better opportunities elsewhere to serve? Let us consider the Lord as our example. Jesus only traveled within a thirty mile radius of his home and had more than enough missionary work, service to the afflicted, the needy, the poor and down trodden. He was able to serve all ages, all spheres of society and meet specific needs. "Oh, but my daughter needs special training away from home" you may say. Well, that is not what the bible teaches. We must be careful to base our decisions solely on scripture and not on our prevailing culture. On the other hand, if a parent is directing his or her daughter outside this sphere, then it is up to the daughter to follow. She can make respectful appeals but ultimately she is called to honor her parents as unto the Lord. There is one exception. If she is being asked to sin. Then she must honor God rather than man. She must first make sure it is truly a "sin", a violation of scripture and not just trying to get out of her duty. If she is truly loves the Lord and surrendered to His will, she can trust God to work out "everything" even the most difficult circumstances for her good!

As parents we have a responsibility to think biblical and keep from being led by our feelings, our culture and our fears. We must lay our will down to Christ's and confirm all our decisions based on the bible, not experience. We must confirm everything in scripture or we can be easily led in delusion. We must align our thoughts solely on the word of God and stop believing that the world offers more? Are we thinking outside the box of our culture and creatively finding our answers just as He planned? Are we thinking as the bible teaches with sound biblical reference, praying diligently for our daughter's future? Parents who love their children only want the very best for them. We must be careful to please the Lord above personal goals, family pressure and other influencing voices that may contradict scripture. We must keep ourselves from trying to be the "exception" to the principles or directives as outlined in the Bible.

2 Timothy 3:15-17 says~
"And that from a child thou hast known the holy scriptures, which are able to make thee wise unto salvation through faith which is in Christ Jesus. All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness:
That the man of God may be perfect, thoroughly furnished unto all good works."

As in life, situations occur creating unusual circumstances for unprotected woman which we can examine. Jesus was very concerned with the widows, orphans and abandoned ones and made "special" provisions for them but let us not try to place ourselves or our families in categories we are not called to. Let us be careful to evaluate our situation more clearly.

Many "outcasts" are a result of rebellion in which a daughter left the family God placed her in. Some girls are restless and really just want to "get away". They convince others they have a "special calling" or talent that needs to be used and could only be happy elsewhere. In some cases a parent actually believes this though the bible teaches us that our fulfillment is "now" and not based on life changes, or external circumstances. Our joy is in "Christ alone". Some parents are willing to risk the consequences of an unprotected life for a little "happiness" then wonder why their very "good" daughter returns home struggling to follow their counsel as before. Does this mean they were in sin by allowing them to go away? We cannot always understand another one's motive. Most parents have only the best and highest intentions for their daughter. Some are just not sober of the real dangers as exampled in scripture (i.e. Genesis 34, 1 Corinthians 15:33-34, etc...) or the potentially long term effects on others.

What we can share is an observation, that when one places a young woman in unprotected circumstances, they are risking her life to be altered forever. Still God graciously gives us more than we deserve. The results may "appear" to end well as we have heard testimonies to confirm this, yet we should be careful to examine if we are testing the Lord. We have witnessed a multitude of daughter's who have been destroyed by such decisions and "praise" testimonies can sometimes give a false sense of security in young minds or inexperienced families. Everything must be prudently and prayerfully considered. We have witnessed over and over again daughter's across America and overseas who were emotionally and spiritually harmed by the experience. Some turned against their parents training, their Christian upbringing and deeply struggle after leaving home to do "good works".

Even those from very godly homes with parents

who love them and trained them well, many times returned resistant to sound doctrine and wise counsel. These girls become so miserable and their choices are a heavy grief to bear. If you have somehow wondered off the path, please prayerfully consider what the scripture says on this matter and return to Christ. Then surrender your will to His original pattern for living. This is where you will find the peace you seek and the answers to all your questions.

If you are one of those who are widowed, fatherless or abandoned then be encouraged. The Lord is close to your afflictions and cares deeply for you. Jesus will make provision for you and is a refuge as you diligently seek you Him. Sometimes it is a matter of humbly returning home where God placed you. Jesus always provides for your all your needs, with peace and sound direction as you faithfully follow Him.

May the Lord give us wisdom, discernment and a biblical mind as we strive to find His perfect will.

Much love in Christ!

Brethren, I count not myself to have apprehended: but this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before, I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus. Philippians 3:13-14

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Thanksgiving "Tea Talks"~Conversations with Lady Lydia

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A Short Repast While Out On

Location...

Began our first "Tea Talks" with my good friend

Lady Lydia

Hello Ladies! "Tea Talks" with Country Victorian and Lady Lydia are conversational discussions specificially for "Today's" Titus Two wives and daughters! They are to edify our position as wives, mother's and daughter's from a biblical perspective. These talks are for those who have chosen to follow the scriptural teaching of being "Keeper's at Home"as found in the bible.

We also want to encourage those who truly desire the Titus two calling but are not able to, that we understand the challenges you have. As we discuss various aspects effecting our lives within our culture and the negative consequences of women leaving the Titus two teaching, we are not directing our comments or concerns towards you. These discussions are meant to bring clarity from years of observation as we consider the results of a society in which women have made choices away from biblcial teaching and how it has effected their families for generations to come.

Happy Thanksgiving and we hope you have had a lovely time with those you love so much! We send greetings to the Titus Two group from the Northwest who have met in Mrs. Hollinger's home over the past year, to our dear sisters throughout the United States and world wide who LOVE being Titus Two women!! We send special greetings to our sisters in Christ who we have mentored for the past few years in creating special Titus Two classes and all of their students!

Ladies, get your kettle boiling and set out your favorite tea cup so you can enjoy an amazing Titus Two discussion with Lady Lydia! She is our favorite Author, Homemaker and Preacher's wife. Lydia has served her family in ministry for over fifty years and is a seasoned Titus Two woman.

Country Victorian: Let's begin with today's topic. We will continue our series in several parts on this blog.

Q: Lady Lydia, what is the primary Titus Two topic you would you like to discuss?

ladylydiaspeaks: Lets discuss the needs of younger women today and how older women can help the younger women, as taught in Titus 2.

Country Victorian: Let us first look to scripture and read the Titus Two mandate.

ladylydiaspeaks: Titus 2:1 "but speak thou the things which become sound doctrine:

Tit 2:2 That the aged men be sober, grave, temperate, sound in faith, in charity, in patience.
Tit 2:3 The aged women likewise, that they be in behavior as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things;
Tit 2:4 That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children,
Tit 2:5 To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.
Tit 2:6 Young men likewise exhort to be sober minded."

ladylydiaspeaks: We forget to look to the 2nd verse which shows what aged men should be like, in the church because the very next verse says "the aged women LIKEWISE" which indicates that they have to have the same qualities as the men~ there's equality for you!
The aged women are supposed to be just like the aged men in conduct: sober, grave, temperate, etc. I think first of all its good to remember what you longed for as a young married woman or young woman, what you wanted older women to be like or what you needed from them.

Country Victorian: (Well, if I look back when I was a young woman)~I remember feeling so lost by not having an older woman to teach me how to be a homemaker, how to take care of babies or how to cook well. I was so alone without an older woman. You know the old saying, "she could not even boil water?" Well, that was me! I spent most of my life in a system that did not promote or provide support for God's biblical plan for women.

ladylydiaspeaks: It is not easy to adjust to homemaking full time when you have spent most of your waking hours as a young woman in institutions that have nothing to do with having successful marriages, well brought-up children and a comfortable, happy home life.

Country Victorian: Women have lost the beautiful way of life as taught in the scriptures. Because of that, the older women have neglected to fulfill their responsibilities and as a result, younger women have suffered.

ladylydiaspeaks: I was talking with my own mother about this, and she mentioned that even those who were not religious, believed that women should stay home and be guards and guides of the home, for wisdom's sake and for the good of the family and the marriage. Even Nancy Reagan said she could have had a good career, or a good marriage, and she chose the marriage. She did not work outside the home after she married because she knew she could not give them both her best.

Country Victorian: Our answer is simple, if we would only look to the bible and not our culture for our answers as (biblical) women.

ladylydiaspeaks: That is so true.

Country Victorian: What happened "in our day", many women went to work "outside the home" instead of working "inside the home" and we lost our families.
What I mean by this is that younger women who once were taught by their mothers and by "older women" the "how to's" of loving a husband, training children and all the many aspects of keeping home~ has been lost.

ladylydiaspeaks: And so, younger women desperately want to know how they can have a family that is cohesive and loving. This is one thing older women need to teach, but before they can, they have to have something to teach, and they can’t teach if they don't believe what Titus 2 says.

Country Victorian: This has a rippling effect and now we are left with younger women who are "clueless" and discouraged. The basics that our mother's and grandmother's taught us "daily" to keep our homes as a well-run functioning business is no longer considered "our business" but someone else's. Yet the children suffer while we adults argue and debate over whose business it is. In the meantime a generation is lost, angry and feeling abandoned by absentee mothers and a home filled with confusion, disorder and stress. We have younger (men and women) wanting to restore order and give their new family what was lost from their own childhood.

I remember an Elder of a church we attended telling me his mother was not home or available to him. He was so heartbroken and felt deprived. He wanted his children to be blessed with a loving home and an "available" mother. He realized the value of this teaching and wanted a better life. We have a generation of women who have not realized the value of God's word and younger women desperately wanting to learn what they missed out on.

Country Victorian: How do we bridge the gap Lydia? What is one important factor in creating a successful family that you can share with our readers?

ladylydiaspeaks: The heart has to first yearn to be the woman described in Titus 2, more than anything. You have to have a longing for it, that will drive you to want to acquire the skills needed to guide the home. Older women can inspire the younger women to want it. I remember an older woman coming to my house once when I was sick and unable to keep up with anything. She whipped out that vacuum cleaner and cleaned all the floors, and then cleared all the clutter, gathered up all the laundry and got the washer started, and piled up the dishes and began washing dishes. She turned on some soft music, lit candles and set the table. When she left, there was a savory stew cooking in a crockpot. She told me before she left, that I should get up and get a shower and would feel a little better, and she was right. While I was in the shower, she changed my bedding and re-made the bed and cleaned up the bedroom. She was not a young woman, but she was skilled and focused and knew what to do. Sometimes young women just need someone in their area to come and show them how to sweep the floor, wash dishes, do the laundry, and put a meal on the stove, while taking care of children. Having not grown up in homes where this has been bred into them, as well as having been raised in a culture where homemaking was put down as something nonintellectual or non-spiritual, many young women did not learn the skills needed to create a wonderful home life, which includes a LOT of housekeeping. Following the Titus 2 teachings DOES create a better life! Family members feel the difference when they come home to a house filled with the things a mother or wife does to make things orderly, beautiful. Spiritual values are so important. If you don’t believe the word of God and don’t believe that He has given you an important mission of guiding the home, you can't have the kind of motivation you need to do a beautiful job.

Country Victorian: So what you are saying is that this issue is truly a reflection of a woman's relationship with the Lord and if she takes God's word to heart or not. It has been said that culture is religion externalized and perhaps we can see how the external influences expressed in ones actions in fact expresses the truth of ones spiritual life.

Country Victorian: The kindness shown to you by the "older woman" you described was not meaningless nor was hers a "mindless task". Her "purposeful" self-sacrificing service was a beautfiful expression of a Titus Two woman teaching a younger woman through her words followed by actions. As you described, she was an "older woman" who knew her job well. She showed you her excellent homemaking as a result of her faithful service to her own family. You witnessed as a younger woman, her religion externalized through the ministry of a seasoned Titus Two woman which inspired you as one to emulate. As we faithfully serve our families, others will be blessed. In our "older" years we can more effectively reach out to others and give wise counsel because we have lived it out in our own home life.

Our greatest service for Christ is not in far away missions, ministries or in constant outside activities but it is first and foremost within our own homes~our true religion externalized. We have a greater impact for the world as others enter "ours" and as we lay our lives down for Christ's sake.

Country Victorian: I enjoyed our special time with Lady Lydia and I hope you did too. If you have subject matters you would like to see addressed in the future, be sure and contact us and join us for our next

"Tea Talk"

A Perfect Day

2010-10-02T18:01:00.001-07:00

Father~ you are the Lord of the Harvest and we thank you for this beautful season to glory in your handiwork. May we take the time to enjoy the brilliant color palates, the crisp freshness in the air and see your love in all those around us. by L. Hollinger

We are a Christian support group of “likeminded” women that meet monthly to strengthen our Proverbs 31 resolve and fulfill our Titus 2:5 mandate.

This class was also created for daughters who choose to become "Keepers At Home" by creating a supportive environment with sound training while encouraging strong biblical character in their noble calling. The Titus 2 wives share wisdom they have learned from many years of experience which the younger woman greatly benefit from. These ladies have a teachable heart and a gracious spirit. With humility they regard one another as more important than themselves as Christ taught us in Phillipians 2:2-3. This verse has become our theme for the year.

We had a very refreshing time as we took a nature walk to the Wheelers barn and covered many subjects. While we walked, we practiced conversational etiquette which is a very important topic that we hope to share more in future classes. Our theme was a “Harvest Apple Tea” and we thoroughly enjoyed the beauty of Gods creations with all the brilliant colors and the fresh mountain air.

It was an absolutely perfect day as Mrs. Wheeler (assisted by her daughter Miss Alexa) taught us excellence in nutrition through the properties of raw goats milk. We enjoyed fresh homemade yogart, sanitized raw milk and learned how to produce the highest probiotic quality with the greatest health values. We had a teaching on how to wisely keep our priorities as women, homebased business and an introduction to homeschooling biblically. For some, this was the first time they ever milked a goat as Miss Megan Wheeler shared the various aspects of animal management that could be applied to other types of enterprises.
We enjoyed a beautiful golden day with sweet fellowship and made new friendships. The ladies brought homemade delights of hot apple cider, cinnamon monkey bread, maple leaf cookies and fresh apples with a creamy dip to celebrate the tastes of the season.
We look forward to next months gathering as we join hearts, godly wisdom and skills to be all we can be for the glory of God.

Women Of Titus Two Support Group

2010-09-24T08:57:00.000-07:00

"We’re all coming from different churches with different personalities, as well as with different cultural and religious backgrounds, there’s sometimes a temptation to judge another’s life that may not be the same as yours. But only God knows our heart and circumstances, and He is our ultimate Judge (In the end of it all, that’s what it’s all about—pleasing the Lord).

“For we shall all stand before the Judgment Seat of Christ” Romans 14:10. So let’s love and accept each other where we are in our journey with the Lord, and seek to edify as Paul says in Philippians II: 2 and 3: “Make my joy complete by being of the same mind, maintaining the same love, united in one spirit, intent on one purpose. Do nothing from selfishness or empty conceit, but with humility of mind regard one another as more important than yourselves.”

Mrs. Ressler~Women of Titus Two Class

"Women of Titus Two" had an amazing new season with a wonderful group of women joining together for a common purpose!

What is a Titus Two group you may ask?

This is first and foremost a support group for women of all ages, to strengthen their resolve as Proverbs 31 women and to help facilitate wives, mothers and grandmothers in fulfill their Titus 2:5 calling. This group was also designed for daughters who choose to become "Keepers At Home" by creating a supportive environment with sound training, while encouraging strong biblical character in their noble calling . This is not an expositional bible study, for that is not our groups calling. Though the Titus 2:5 mandate is very challenging, God made His word simple and very clear on the matter. There is no need to debate or try to plead what is clearly written. Yet sound scripture and biblical principles are within every class. Let's read Proverbs 31 together:

"Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies. The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life. She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands. She is like the merchants' ships; she bringeth her food from afar. She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens.

She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard. She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms. She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night. She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff. She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy. She is not afraid of the snow for her household:
for all her household are clothed with scarlet. She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple. Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land. She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant. Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come. She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness. She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness. Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her. Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all. Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised. Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.

We also blessed those who have a God honoring spirit towards their family and helped reinforce their calling as biblical women. Let us read Titus 2:5:

"The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things;
That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands,
to love their children, To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed".

This scriptural mandate for women is clear. When wives and daughters understand their important roles, they will find the true peace and fulfillment they have always wanted, as they yield to Christs directives. When we cooperate in relationship to our chosen position within the family, this brings real joy to our lives, happiness to our families and the greatest glory to God.

This does not mean it is always easy, or that our personal agenda will be perfectly met or that we will be surrounded by constant intellectual stimulation yet we will have more opportunity and flexibility in this realm for a meaningful life than in any other. We also have more freedom as we are no longer under the bondage of a task master by slaving for another woman's husband or father's vision. We are serving our own husband or father which is a great honor to be able to serve them. There are many women here including myself, that assist either their husband or father in business or in ministry. Some of us even have our own homebased cottage industries-that are under their spouse or father's covering. It is truly a protective blessing and it sure teaches us a lot. This is the way God intended.

Being a Titus 2:5, Proverbs 31 woman is truly the best life for us. This is God's promise and we must trust Him. Ladies, anything worth while will cost yet we will find our life when we lay it down for Christ's sake. God's authority is loving even when we do not comprehend it. He has only our best interest in mind. As we reverance the Lord in cooperating with His scriptural mandate, we will keep from "Blapheming" Him.

Are we perfect women who never struggle in honoring or loving our authorities (this includes never hesitating in trusting the Lord)? Are we always perfect in loving or training children? What about our homes? Are we supersonic, beyond brilliant homemakers? We all know that none of us are perfect or can claim we have "arrived". We may find ourselves excelling in one area only to find the need for growth in another. We are all learning and need to be gracious with each other especially since we are coming from different levels of maturity which is God's plan to help us conform to the image of Christ.

On the other hand, we must take serious the scriptural warning that we could blaspheme the Lord if we ignore trusting Him, believing and obeying His word as Titus Two Women. We must fear God more than man. We must also keep from fearing that we are imposing our views on others. As Christian women we are not imposing "our views". We are only pointing other women to God's highest plan and His mandate for them. Why would we be afraid to share the good news which will lead our dear sisters in Christ to emotional, physical or spiritual freedom as promised by the Lord? This is the road that leads... to the inner peace they so deparately seek, bringing clarity of mind by clearing the confusion to the many heavy laden questions of where their purpose and fulfillment really lies.

Obeying God's plan is their salvation from the bondage of slavery to an unfulfilling, meaningless life of great regret.

"Many daughters have done nobly, But you excell them all".

Charm is deceitful and beauty is vain but a woman who fears the Lord, she shall be praised.

Give her the product of her hands, And let her works praise her in the gates.

(All digital photo's were from our September 2010 "Chocolate Delectable Tea" designed by Miss Megan Wheeler, Miss Melissa Cherry above and the Titus Two Team) We also want to thank Mrs. Cherry for teaching calligraphy at our September class. It was excellent!

Springtime Modest Tea

2010-04-02T13:23:00.000-07:00

Glory, Glory said the bee, hallelujah said the flea,
Praise the Lord remarked the wren,
At Springtime all is born again!

Isn’t that true! Springtime is one of my favorite times of year. Everything is budding and blooming, all the birds have flown in from their winter’s travels and the little creatures are scurrying, making all kinds of chitterchatter telling us life has begun again.

In this class we talked about being “born again” and blooming into women who Glorify God in our hearts and in our outward expression.

We began with inner purity

”Likewise, I want women to adorn themselves with proper clothing, modestly and discreetly, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly garments”, but rather by means of good works, as is proper for women making a claim to godliness”. 1 Timothy 2: 9-19

(Miss Johanna Sodeberg listens attentively)

Modesty begins from the

“inside out”

Purity of heart, spirit and body all affect the way we feel and how we live our lives. When we are fully surrendered to the Lord Jesus Christ, purity is expressed in our attitudes, conversations and communicated through our apparel. As we look to scripture, our values, views and beliefs need to align with the word of God.

(Miss Faith Anne)

Men from all over the country were asked this question and their answers were quiet fascinating to read. Women do not always understand a young man’s heart or how he views what true modesty or beauty is to him. In our class, we encouraged women to care more about their brothers in Christ and to help them be all they are meant to be as godly men. Though men are accountable for the choices they make, we must keep from excusing our ignorance or lack of concern in the area of personal modesty. We must be just as responsible for our own actions and not cause our brothers to stumble. We must also educate ourselves to respectfully honor the differences between men and women.

Historical Review

Where there was once clarity, today’s unisex fashion’s blur the lines of distinction and our understanding. Studying designs from the past, helps us realize these changes. Women lost their high position of men’s admiration when purity of heart, mind and body was cast aside. Women have been led astray believing that a hardened, sensual heart attracts the “love of their lives” when in fact just the opposite is true.

A virtuous, modest woman is a rare jewel men prize above all others.

For centuries valiant acts to win such a treasure have been noted. These revered women are cherished through art, song and knightly acts. When women are feminine, they encourage the men around them to rise up to their full potential and bring out their very best. The more a woman blurs the lines of male and female, the more she defeats her own secret dream of finding “real love” with an honorable, praiseworthy, godly man. The more we studied the designs of the past, we saw a similar pattern.

The beauty of colors, modest design and femininity give us clues.

The door is wide open for new types of fashions.

As “Today’s” Christian women,
how should we dress?

“Let it be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable (never going away) quality of a gentle and quiet spirit which is precious in the site of God"

There are multitudes of patterns or designs to express one’s own particular look.

A godly woman will find her own style as she follows scriptural guidelines.

~Mrs. Sodeberg~

a blessing to our class.

We had a “Designer” contest to create modest fashions and the

WINNERS ARE...

Miss Hutto, Miss Faith Anne and Mrs. McCord

"Introductory Gardening"

Our favorite “green thumb” teacher Mrs. Hutto taught basic gardening. We all wanted to hear more as our Titus 2 “Gardener” shared her charts, time tables and very organized advice on how to create specialized gardens for one’s own family. Afterwards seeds were passed out along with a desire to get digging!

Thank you Mrs. Hutto!
We learned much at our “Modest Tea” and “Gardening” class.

We had lovely fellowship and we hope you enjoyed our women of Titus two blog!

Our door is always open and we look forward to you visiting us again right here at Country Victorian!
May God Bless you as you endeavor to glorify God in every part of your life.

Elegant Rose Tea

2010-03-06T15:28:00.001-08:00

Violins played softly as the glowing candlelight welcomed our guests.
Happy sounds filled the air as daughters, wives and mothers came together, some from far distances, to meet for a higher purpose. Women joined together to strengthen our calling and our biblical roles.

Brilliant roses with a mixture of greenery inside a large kettle. Atop the white tulle sat two tall candles on a white rose drape, layered over a red table cloth.

A Victorian purse held white tulips and roses, filling the air with a gentle fragrance. As we gathered around the antique piano, praising the Lord, our hearts were filled with gratitude.

Our "Elegant Rose Tea" theme was created by Miss Johanna Kinne assisted by her artistic sister Miss Katharina Kinne. Miss Johanna's gift in floral design and innovative use of craft ideas brought an element of elegance mixed with a country flair.
Miss Kinne used a tiered look bringing a Victorian purse to life.

Starched lace dollies as a votive, held an old fashioned broach, giving a touch of class to her candles.

Those who attended were inspired by Miss Kinne's works of art and unique use of levels with layers.

The Miss Kinne's put much thought into our class creating a beautiful environment which lifted the spirit and refreshed the soul. Their diligent work paid off as they prepared everything in a timely manner ahead of schedule making their tasks light and manageable.

They were cheerful, happy hostesses, revealing a maturity found in few young women in today's Christian culture. They joyfully embraced the extra work and time it took to put together a quality class. These are some of the characteristics we Titus 2 women are trying to develop in the young ladies. The Miss Kinne's passed with flying colors!

Our theme was "Love" from a biblical perspective. Many young women believe love is a "feeling" when in fact, feelings follow our choice as shared by Mr. Voddie Bauchum, subject of one our Titus 2:5 teachers.

We had a visit from "Mr. Perfect" quoted as being "The man of your dreams!' 'He knows all the right things to say and when to say it!!" At least this is what many young women think. Our guest speaker shared how many young ladies have misconceptions of godly men and shared who is

The Real"Mr. Perfect"

These young ladies were captivated through the wisdom of older women sharing their life lessons, experience and counsel in being godly wives, mothers and homemakers. We completed our series on "Time Management" and "Organization". We also had another excellent teaching on the Proverbs 31 woman as we continue this monthly series by Mrs. Ressler.

Some of the older daughters are now bringing their younger sisters to participate in our class. What a delight to see young girls catching a biblical vision early in life!

Our dear Miss Sodeberg shared her beautiful testimony on "Courtship" and articulately expressed how Christ prepared her to receive the man of her dreams!

Here are some of the young women in our class. All of the daughters, wives and mothers attending are committed to the biblical call of women and our chosen occupation as homemakers with options in homebased entrepreneurial opportunities as found in Proverbs 31 . These women appreciate the hard work it takes to make a happy home with renewed priorities in biblical faithfulness, making our class are real success!

"Everything was White, Blue and Glittery...as is Our Little Town"

2010-02-03T18:23:00.000-08:00

It had such a warm winter feel like...
A glowing hearth on a white, snowy evening

Our January Co-Host Miss Toni H. created the concept with a "Winter Snowflake Tea" as our theme. The front walkway displayed handmade tin lamps, ornate with hand punched holes wrapped in delicate blue beads with an ornamental snowflake hanging from the center. A long two tiered sheer blue and solid white bow with snowflake designs graced our door. Our “sign in” area was greeted with a snow family and a white feathered pen with wintery looking cotton at the base on a china blue tray. A white dove stood atop a blue Jane Austin Journal holding the dreams for our class with the Lord's peace. A white & blue ceramic snowflake dish held verses’ reminding our class is based on the word of God and scriptures enclosed blue picture holders.

A labor of love was our banner as beautifully handmade snowflakes hung from a thin silver thread draped across the entrance welcoming all to our group. Little hand punched snowflakes sprinkled our tables like a fresh fallen snow. White flowering hydrangea’s shimmering with glitter that looked like snowballs on top of a sheer mountain of white-silver snow flaked tablecloths with blue underneath.

The ladies brought excitement and laughter as we enthusiastically reconnected after a long holiday respite. Like old friends who have been longing to meet, we hugged and chatted while gathering our tea cups. We also have a new friend who joined us "Miss K.T.! We are so happy you are now a part of our class and we loved the designer apron you wore that your sister made. You looked so beautiful and feminine.

A special recipe of Canella-a hot cinnamon drink, a peppermint chai in a golden glass carafe atop a tea light and many other choices were served to warm us before beginning our class. Peaceful music played as the daughters, wives sang and a dear Titus 2 Grandmother played our 1906 antique piano. We lifted our voices to the Lord and sang "Be Thou My Vision and A Christian Home". We felt His presence as we honored him in our hearts for our homes. Then we prayed and began our talk. We were given a special message from Pastor Sherman's wife on the feminist attack on daughters and wives at home which we will continue to share next month, Lord willing, how to wisely stand. Pastor Ressler's wife began a series on the acrostic of “The Proverbs 31 Woman”. It is most thorough breakdown of this chapter I have ever heard and I am really looking forward to the next class to learn more.

The daughters shared the wonderful projects they completed that were learned in our class and how they ministered to others in need. One young lady told how our class "Joy Box" brought tears to a woman battling with cancer and we read a letter from a homebound woman thanking God for the ministry of our group. Some of the ladies shared how they are using their time wisely serving in their community. One is helping a young homemaker with a large family and she is being blessed with a crash course in extreme homemaking! The other is helping a mother by teaching her children and honing her own skills for homeschooling her future children. One of the daughters, volunteers once a week at the pregnancy center and many are learning how to wisely use their time at home while serving their families. These God honoring stay at home daughters are bright lights in our communities and are being used powerfully to glorify Him.

In our class, we crowned our Beloved Birthday girl Miss Johanna and honored our cherished Mrs. Villalba as Queen for our class. They both were given crowns and questions with lots of laughter. Mrs. Villalba gave a very wise and providential counsel with advice for marriage. The "Gleaners" Miss Toni shared cost saving recipes for laundry detergent and Miss Helen shared her scriptural "heart check" list. Miss Elizabeth gave us a “Preview” of her future talk to be given about her courtship and shared the blessing of wisely serving others.

We had a baking contest this month and the Titus wives were the judges. It was very hard to decide since it was all so delicious but while we took our tea break, the judges gathered in the kitchen and made our final decision. Congratulations Miss Yohanna and Miss Johanna, the winners of our baking contest! Each lady received lovely gifts wrapped inside cute kitchen containers to look like baskets, filled with gifts for their Hope Chest's. Mrs. Hutto won the Titus snowflake draw and we played musical Hope chest by passing a gift back and forth until it landed in the lap of Miss Lizzy! It was so much fun.

We began our series on "Organization" and each lady received excellent materials for "The Most Important Room of Your House" and "24 Hours Is all you get" study. We ended with a great deal of love, hugs, laughter and prayer. The Titus wives who attended were given goodies for their husbands to spoil them when they got home.

During our clean up time, I was so touched to hear the daughters tell me how blessed they were and what was the most meaningful part of our class. They joyfully worked, laughed and sang while cleaning up. It was such a delight and they stayed until it was all done! With hugs and gratefulness to our family for giving this course, they left with a song on their heart. I was so blessed by January’s Co-Host Miss Toni and her assistant Miss Melissa. They are absolutely amazing young ladies. Though some of us live in other areas this class truly expresses our hearts desire and this “Snowflake Winter Tea” reflects our beautiful little towns.

The young ladies who attend are the "Cream of the Crop" of beloved daughters; faithfully serving their families, church and community while preparing to be awesome wives and mothers. Our family and the Titus 2:5 wives who attend, feel so privileged to be a part of such a cutting edge program and are so excited about next month’s Valentine's class. We hope those daughters, wives, mothers and Grandmothers who are committed to a Titus 2:5 and Proverbs 31 vision will join us in prayer, posting or visit us next time on our blog!

Winter Blessings!

2010-01-09T17:45:00.001-08:00

Songs to warm your heart! Family and friends sang with our young ladies ministry at the Mall.

(Master Johnny Sodeberg, Mrs. Ressler, Misses Helen & Elizabeth Sodeberg, Miss Yohanna Kinney *not pictured- Pastor Ressler, Miss Johanna Sodeberg, Mrs. Sodeberg, Mrs. Schramm, Miss Kelly, Mrs. Lambert, Master Samuel & Mrs. Hollinger also sang with our group)

We were truly blessed to have a booth for the Arts & Crafts sale to sell homemade products our class created.

The Misses Sodeberg's items were a real hit! Their handmade products just flew off the tables. These ladies are very gifted and creative designing everything so lovely. Their baked goods were absolutely delicious that everyone wanted more!

Ministry, Mentoring and Hospitality

2010-01-09T17:06:00.001-08:00

Our Family feels so privileged to have been able to be a part of mentoring young people and holding classes in our home. We have loved giving hospitality and have been blessed back with so much more!

We started a young ladies class for young women who want to become Titus 2:5 Homemakers.

We were thrilled to witness dreams fulfilled of a young man my husband was honored to come along side during the courtship process. To see his hope complete has been so rewarding. Another godly family on their way!

We have been so honored to host young people in our home and encourage them to fulfill their roles as godly men and women. These young ladies and gentlemen are true treasures to our family and we love serving them.

It's The Most Wonderful Time of the Year!

2009-11-29T15:20:00.001-08:00

What a joy it was to attend this years Andy Williams Christmas show in Branson Missouri. I have dreamed of seeing this icon for over ten years and this year my Christmas wish came true.

True to form, this eighty-two year old was still soft shoeing and wowing us with his silky, svelty voice making him a treasured gift under this years tree. Our family loved his show and all the talent he brought to the winter wonderland he created.
Tears came to my eyes as this dear man walked on stage with special grace and stature reminding me of my own father and how quickly time passes. This was such a God honoring show as Mr. Williams reminded us that being a Christian is the true meaning of Christmas.

With a spring in his step and a smile on his face, his humor and incredible voice brought back warm memories of the season.
The snowy firelit stage with old fashioned traditions made us long for home. The setting had all the Thomas Kinkade type of beauty that our own town holds, making us thankful we live in such a lovely little place.

We had a delicious Thanksgiving dinner at Andy Williams Moon River restaurant which was the best we ever had away from home. He really creates quality in all he touches yet he was clear to remind us whose signature seals the real reason for the season~Jesus Christ

Happy Holidays!

Sleuth Detectives~Making Memories With Our Sons

2009-03-14T16:55:00.000-07:00

In our series called "Making Memories With Our Sons", it is important to create opportunities and participate in manly activities as a family. This encourages development of masculine sons with the same fervant support of femininity for daughters. Boys love detective type play and we thought it would be great fun to take our son to a "Sleuth Dinner Show". We want our son to enjoy being a boy and though he loves the lessons learned by Mr. Knightly and Mr. Roger Hamley of Jane Austin's Era, he equally enjoys rolling up his sleeves and digging deeper in other wholesome genre's too. This is part of being a balanced boy and I love supporting anything that makes him all he is to be as a complete man.

In addition, we love his cowboy hats, roughing it in the mountains in his Daniel Boone getup and anything outdoorsy.

The "Art of Play" makes the man

How we direct our boys needs to be well thought out and carefully considered. First and foremost is to teach our sons to love God's word, hiding scripture deep within their hearts and embrace the principles that will bless their lives and future families. One concern I have had regarding the training of ones son, is how many young men learn their academia but miss the important aspect that brings a boy into full manhood. If we look to scripture we see the "David's" and "Solomon's" of the bible were not just sitting with tablets in hand. These were boys who loved God and spent time in the fields learning what real manhood was all about. They were strong, ruddy young men with qualities of balance both internally and externally. Look at your boys, see if they need to get out into the fresh air for some body building, tree climbing and tree felling skills. Mothers, ask yourself if your sons are being developed in equal proportion with their mind, body and spirit?

If sons grow up with only computers, television and couch potato training, they will never understand the world of a well balanced man. They need to get out, work in wholesome masculine building skills and develop creative problem solving abilities. I believe it was the famous Captain Cook who said he learned all he needed to know in leading men in battles by what he played in his own back yard.

This particular video was from a recent trip down South. Our son has been studying logic in his home-education and this game really made it fun for him. As we travel, we want our son to experience what he is reading and have a hands on education. We took a cross country train trip and the practical, experiential knowledge our son gained was invaluable. This particular evening was a pure delight as we played a deductive reasoning "Live Clue Game". For those of you who enjoy board games, this was great fun figuring out "Who done it!".

All the characters came to life and our son was asked to play a cameo role in the entertainment. This was his first acting debut with his new friend Jordan from Texas. These two had a wonderful time together on stage and their gypsy presence enthralled the audience. These two young men threw us off kilter as we tried to figure out the suspects. Samuel and Jordan were the

"Sleuth Detectives!"

Highland Tea-"Making Memories With Our Sons"

2009-03-07T23:35:00.000-08:00

In my ongoing series, "Making Memories With Our Sons", I wanted to include a very important aspect of training these valiant lads. Boys need to become strong, godly, masculine men and yet there is often a missing element in their education. A son’s training needs to include but is not limited to the teaching of godliness, masculinity, outdoor skills, "how to" be protectors, providers and leaders in all aspects of life. These are valuable qualities indeed which can take on many forms to implement. There is one element of education that is often overlooked which is greatly needed for the fully trained young man.

It is that of being a real “Gentleman”

We educators need to help our sons establish manners, deference for women and children first, handling themselves in various settings with grace, decorum, especially in environments which call for excellence. This teaching must include the careful provisions for males by encouraging them to rise up to their calling as men.

Every time I visit my good friends on the coast, we have a special "High Tea" together. I mentioned the importance of sons learning this art, including manners and how to handle themselves on such occasions to my good friend Lady Lydia. While speaking together, the wheels of inspiration took off again. That is God’s gift of our friendship. We have such a creative, collaboration of ideas and our families work very well together which makes it a sheer joy every time we meet.

Our friends the Sherman’s and Humphrey’s decided to hold a Scottish Highland High Tea for our young masters, which our families joined together for a day of hearty, happy celebration. This was a carefully thought out time in which our sons were trained in the art of “Highland Traditions” and the “Men of Old”. Our theme transported us back in time to the hearty men who spent their days up in the Highlands with great physical exertion searching for game and daily labor. They came down exhausted and famished, to a hearty tea which was a heavy meal of meats including many delights that refreshed these brawny men, strengthening their ruddy constitutions.

Our boys were given special names of honor for the occasion and learned about the history of these amazing men. The tea was a delightful feast and we all partook in the bounty.

With Trumphets and Fanfare

~Announcing~

Samuel Duke of S.P., Sir Isaac Earl of J. C., Sir John Paul and Sir Joseph of the Clan of Humphrey

Samuel Duke of S.P. sends a very special "Thank You" to Mrs. Humphrey for your creative inspiration and Mrs. Sherman for your excellence in taste of our Highland High Tea.

Afterwards these boonfellows put on their gear and played their outdoor games!

What a joy and delight to raise sons who can roll up their sleeves, get dirty and also become great gentlemen all in the same day!

Happy Valentine's Day

2009-02-14T15:15:00.000-08:00

THE STORY OF VALENTINE'S DAY BEGINS IN THE THIRD CENTURY WITH AN OPPRESSIVE ROMAN EMPEROR AND A HUMBLE CHRISTIAN MARTYR.
THE EMPEROR WAS CLAUDIUS 11. THE CHRISTIAN WAS VALENTINUS.

Claudius had ordered all Romans to worship twelve gods, and he had made it a crime punishable by death to associate with Christians. But Valentinus was dedicated to the ideals of Christ, and not even the threat of death could keep him from practicing his beliefs. Valentine as refused an unattested law attributed to Roman Emperor Claudius II, allegedly ordering that young men remain single. The Emperor supposedly did this to grow his army, believing that married men did not make for good soldiers. Valentine, however, secretly performed marriage ceremonies for young men. Valentinus was caught marrying Christian couples and aiding any Christians who were being persecuted under Emperor Claudius in Rome [when helping them was considered a crime], When Claudius found out about this, he had Valentine arrested and thrown in jail. Valentinus was arrested and imprisoned. Claudius took a liking to this prisoner -- until Valentinus tried to convert the Emperor -- whereupon was condemned to death.

"Do not rebuke a mocker or he will hate you; rebuke a wise man and he will love you"

Proverbs 9:8

During the last weeks of Valentinus's life, a remarkable thing happened. Seeing that he was a man of learning, the jailer asked whether his daughter, Julia, might be brought to Valentinus for lessons. She had been blind since birth. Julia was a pretty young girl with a quick mind, Valentinus read stories of Rome's history to her. He taught her arithmetic and told her about God. She saw the world through his eyes, trusted in his wisdom, and found comfort in his quiet strength.

"Valentinus, does God really hear our prayers?" Julia said one day. "Yes, my child, He hears each one, " he replied.
"Do you know what I pray for every morning and every night? I pray that I might see. I want so much to see everything you've told me about!"

"God does what is best for us if we will only believe in Him," Valentinus said. "Oh, Valentinus, I do believe," Julia said intensely. "I do." She knelt and grasped his hand.

They sat quietly together, each praying. Suddenly there was a brilliant light in the prison cell. Radiant, Julia screamed, "Valentinus, I can see! I can see!" "Praise be to God!" Valentinus exclaimed, and he knelt in prayer.

On the eve of his death, Valentinus wrote a last note to Julia, urging her to stay close to God, and he signed it

"From Your Valentine"

His sentence was carried out the next day, February 14, 270 A.D., near a gate that was later named Porta Valentini in his memory. He was buried at what is now the Church of Praxedes in Rome. It is said that Julia herself planted a pink-blossomed almond tree near his grave. Today, the almond tree remains a symbol of abiding love and friendship. On each February 14, St. Valentine's Day, messages of affection, love, and devotion are exchanged around the world.

Happy Valentine's Day!

There are many varying stories of Valentinus and of the original Valentine Story. Remains were found in catacombs bearing the name St. Valentine in the area and time frame referencing this particular individual that I write about.

As Christian's we serve the Lord prayerfully while carefully and wisely investing our lives in others like as confirmed in scripture. Some times we will be greatly blessed while other times we will be heartbroken by insults, mockings or persecution. "With gentleness we are called to correct those who are in opposition, if perhaps God may grant them repentance leading to the knowledge of the truth". "For the sorrow that is according to the will of God produces a repentance without regret, leading to salvation, but the sorrow of the world produces death." We must understand, if others are unwilling to listen to God's word, to take heart. There are others like "Julia" who will listen, bringing joy to our hearts, that we may rejoice with throughout eternity.

It should also be noted that scripture makes it clear that we come to God through Christ alone, not by any other, be on heaven or earth nor of one given a name by mortals of "Saint".

Jesus said to him, "I am the way, and the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father but through Me~John 14:6

"For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life~John 3:16

True Love

2009-02-14T14:19:00.000-08:00

Have you ever thought what the greatest "love" relationship is?

I am sure you have, since it is Valentines Day. True love will lay its life down and sacrifice for another. True love fulfills their responsibility even when it is hard, "As unto the Lord" and does not run away from it. True love says, "Not my will but thine be done". This is the "greatest, Nobelist and purest form of love". It is the similar type of love your parents sacrificed for you or when soldiers including those in "The Force" of public service, lay their lives down for another... it is physically manifested.

God's love transcends all understanding especially by today's Feminist's. The type of love which gives up career and self fulfillment in order to lay it down for a child entrusted to them or their "own" family is difficult for them to comprehend. It is hard for those who are self absorbed, self serving to understand sacrificial love. They say words like "get a life" or "you should have fulfilled yourself" or "you see, you are just wasting your time being co-dependent and can't let go". How sad that is for those who do not understand the kind of love Jesus sacrificed for us. They would have said the same to Him. For He NEVER lets us go once we are His.

Jesus tells us the story of the lost sheep and how the good Shepard left the ninety-nine to go after just the one. The world would consider this foolishness, co-dependency and dysfunctional. They would say, "you've got enough under your charge, stop being so consumed, controlling and let that sheep have it's own life!". Yet Jesus never did. His analogy of how God the Father interacts with human beings shows us what true love really is. God the Father is consumed with His children both young and old alike. He went after "the one" He loved and was not moved by the prevailing culture or how society views relationships.

If God were being judged by "Today's Modern Society" as the example of a true father, he would be considered extremely controlling, co-dependent and dysfunctional.

This is the error the world makes...They DO NOT understand "Love"

God does not take sin lightly and expects His children of "all ages" to submit to Him as their Father and authority even if they don't like it. He wants them to honor him, obey him no matter what, even if they feel misunderstood, "cloistered in" or their life is not as they hoped. His boundaries are set for our protection as He sees beyond our comprehension. He does not accept excuses for rebellion, slander of His parenting skills or disloyalty in the camp. He does not follow opinion polls pulling His daughters far away from home to ministry, that override Him or usurp His authority no matter how sym "pathetic" they may sound. When things were difficult, He would expect His children to be there, trusting that all things would work together for their good as they learned to love Him and are called according to His purpose as "adopted" children. The Lord would not support His sons or daughters taking matters into their own hands or going back to their former father of the world even if they were unhappy. He would still call them back to Him.

You may say, "but my Mom and dad are NOT God, they have not been all that I hoped".

I will answer, "this is absolutely true" and than I will ask you..." are you all that your parents hoped you to be in the way you honored or obeyed them? Was God taken by surprise in the parents He chose for you? Do you think He knew your father or mother were not going to be perfect, that they would make mistakes and maybe even hurt you? Do you think you have done or will do better? Do you believe you will never make mistakes when you are married, never to hurt your spouse or children...even if it was unintentional or perceived wrong? Will you need forgiveness or God's grace to you by those you love?

Dear one...the Lord says, "for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God". That means "ALL" including every mother or father on this earth not just yours!

True love understands this. In God's amazing plan, He made provisions even for the imperfect parent to be honored, biblically submitted to by sons and daughters of every age, not just until they turn 18. Until a father's authority is transferred through marriage or a son is appointed by the father these are the Commandments of God. Though the dynamics of their relationship changes, parents are still be honored throughout life.

Are you still "keeping a record of wrongs" from your upbringing? Are you trusting God to work His very best plan for you through the parents He chose to raise you? Have you thought what you have learned and how much you have grown as a result? Have you forgiven?

If not, than God's word says you will not be forgiven.

Where is "True Love" for your father, your mother, your sister or brother? I am NOT just speaking to just youth here but to adults too! I have heard that turmoil in ones life may be traced back to how much we honored our own parents. This is not to say that anything specifically happening in your life right now is a direct result of dishonoring or breaking your parents heart. But prayerfully look back and carefully consider your own relationship with them. Is it "well with you" like God promises to those who keep the 5th Commandment? Or is it only "well" because your parents were gracious enough to forgive you in spite of your behavior?

Have you humbled yourself, sincerely gone back to ask them to forgive you for your part? Are you still keeping secret sin because you are too proud to admit your wrong, a failure or full of fear? Have you thought how this is hindering God's blessings in your life? Being a grown adult or under another authority through marriage is not an excuse to ignore past sin or dishonor your parents no matter how many years have passed.

This Valentine's Day, I encourage you to honestly think about how much you love your family. Not just the ones in your life through marriage but those parents given to raise you including your siblings as a reflective barometer of how much you love God. I want you to ask yourself if you are willing to humble yourself, trusting Jesus to work all things together for your good as you submit to His plan of choosing "your parents" to raise "you" and to be your authority.

How much do your understand what sacrificial love really is? Not the kind that gives unconditionally for a while, maybe even years, than gives up when things don't change. But the "True Love" that remains constant, faithful and loyal no matter what. The kind of love that never fails. I pray you continue to grow in this type of love... to love your family by coming home to God through repentance. If you are not right with your parents or your family, ask them to forgive you. Humble yourself and admit your failings then serve them as unto the Lord under your father direction or if married through your husband's leadership, trusting God made no mistakes in choosing them just for you.

It is amazing how much grace the Lord gives parents to forgive their sons or daughters when they are sincerely broken and reverent. Many times parents already sensed something was wrong and were just waiting for their children to finally grow up and show mature accountability.

Now be thankful! You became the wonderful person you are with all the intricate levels of lessons learned because of your family, chosen just for you!

When you humble yourself before your parents or your family, you will be blessed beyond measure and reconciled with God. His grace will pour out on everything you do. You will see many doors open you thought were closed and the desires of your heart will have chance to finally take root. Then the grace of God pour out to helping you to reconcile all your relationships in a way you never thought possible. You will be crowned with a peace that passes all understanding, radiating and reigning in your heart! Then you will find what "True Love" really means.

Happy Holidays and New Year!

2009-01-01T19:20:00.000-08:00

Be Not Weary

2008-11-20T19:56:00.001-08:00

Sometimes, when I am toil-worn and aweary,
And tired out with working long and well,
And earth is dark, and skies above are dreary,

And heart and soul are all too sick to tell...

These words have come to me like angel fingers
Pressing the spirit's eyelids down in sleep,

'Oh let us not be weary in well doing,
For in due season we shall surely reap.'

Oh, blessed promise! When I seem to hear it,
Whispered by angel voices on the air,
It breathes new life and courage to my spirit,
And gives me strength to suffer and forbear.

And I can wait most patiently for harvest,
And cast my seeds, nor ever faint, nor weep,
If I know surely that my work availeth,
And in God's season, I at last shall reap.

When mind and body were borne down completely,
And I have thought my efforts were all in vain,
These words have come to me so softly, sweetly,
And whispered hope, and urged me on again.

And though my labour seems all unavailing,
And all my striving fruitless, yet the Lord
Doth treasure up each little seed I scatter,
And sometime, sometime, I shall reap the reward.

Ella Wheeler Wilcox

Virtue Through Adversity

2008-11-19T12:35:00.000-08:00

It is easy enough to be pleasant,
When life flows by like a song...

But the man worthwhile is one who will smile,
When everything goes dead wrong.
For the test of the heart is trouble,
And it always comes with the years,
And the smile that is worth the praises of earth
Is the smile that shines through tears.

It is easy enough to be prudent,
When nothing tempts you to stray,
When without or within no voice of sin
Is luring your soul away;
But it's only a negative virtue
Until it is tried by fire,
And the life that is worth the honor on earth
Is the one that resists desire.

By the cynic, the sad, the fallen,
Who had no strength for the strife,
The world's highway is cumbered today;
They make up the sum of life.
But the virtue that conquers passion,
And the sorrow that hides in a smile,
It is these that are worth the homage on earth
For we find them but once in a while.

My dear friend Lady Lydia sent me this poem that her daughther Lillibeth memorized as a young woman. It meant so much to me, that I wanted to share it with you all too. This truly expresses the qualities developed as we go through the trials of life. To somehow rise above them beautifully with God's grace as we humbly take refuge in Him.

Harvest Celebration:"Making Memories With Our Sons"

2008-11-09T11:13:00.000-08:00

What could be more glorious!...

for a boy...

Big

....or small,

than to catapult pumpkins high in the air and watch them splat on the ground!

We mothers think, "ohh..no how many pies could I have made from that?"

These are "The happy ways" our family is celebrating the Fall, Harvest and Thanksgiving Season. Our friends the Feist family invited us to join in the festivities and I wanted to share some ideas for those who want to throw their own celebration.
Our son Samuel was having the time of his life. Look at the face of the big guys here, I think the "little boy" in them was having just as much fun as our son!

One, Two, Three....Look at this homemade catapult... "I hope it holds up!"

Our pumpkin flew pretty far before it landed in the fields close to a barrel. It almost made a hole in one!

In this series I call "Making Memories With Our Sons", gathering friends and family together for a harvest celebration is a wonderful memory for the whole family!

No..."We are the Happy Ones!"

We feel so blessed to have such creatively resourceful friends who are so edifying to be around!

We look forward to God's plan and those friends He has yet for us to meet!

Here are some ideas for an outdoor

"Harvest Celebration"

If your friends or family have horses, hay rides are a wonderful experience. If you don't have a horse than a tractor or truck will do. Put some hay or whatever best to sit on-to give a view-in the back of a wagon, trailer or truck bed...then throw a few blankets in and viola! I should add this works best in the country, slow going to enjoy nature at its finest.

You'll Have A Happy Harvest Ride!

Be sure and look at all the beautiful colors and point out God's handiwork to your children. He shows his designs magnificently this time of year. Let us give Him praise for His enduring faithfulness throughout each season. Remember to sing songs while you take your trail ride. I like "She'll be coming around the mountain" and I love "For the Beauty of the Earth"... which is so glorifying to God when sung A cappella.

Games: There are many memory making games that are simple which our Forefathers and the Pioneers enjoyed~ like three legged races, potato sack races, rope pulls, apple dunking and foot races. This year we did blind folded wheelbarrow races (Samuel was in the barrel:>). It takes fast concentration as the lead man gives the instructions with a blindfolded teammate pushing the wheelbarrow as fast as they can through obstacles like cones and flags. One realizes the importance of clear communication! I could almost do a Titus 2:5 humorous analogy on this...but I will leave that for those with comical imaginations! Our son hung on for dear life criss- crossing over dividing ropes and flags as his Christian sister Katie Feist ran full speed to the end. We laughed and had great joy cheering him on.

Making meaningful memories does not have to cost a great deal of money when you join forces with good friends and neighbors. God has given each of us abilities and blessings. Some are talented at building catapults while others have a wheelbarrel, or a field of pumpkins to share. One mother designed beautiful face paintings of horses and animals on the children while another helped them make bracelets..." masculine for boys and feminine for girls". Some young women helped the children color pictures of leaves for a contest while others served refreshments.

To celebrate this beautiful"Season" the Lord gave us, each household can contribute something needed that will make the day special. I recall a book I read to my son called "Bunny Get Well Soup". Each little forest animal brought in one vegetable to the host and working together created a lovely feast that made their soup taste delicious. By sharing of your bounty with family, friends and neighbors, you too can have a delicious day in the Lord!

Happy Trails To You!

Harvest Home

2008-11-06T20:01:00.000-08:00

"Making Memories With Our Sons"

It's that time of year again!

The leaves turn brilliant colors, radiating the excitment of the season. I love the vibrant crisp energy as everyone rushes around preparing for a lovely long winter. The wood piles are bursting at the seams, the happy voices sipping hot apple cider as friends and families gather to usher in another Harvest Season.

This hand carved "Fall Pheasant" is a tradition we just started this year. My nine year old son and I went exploring on our property for Fall colors bringing a brilliant palate to our centerpiece. We were having ministry guests for dinner and Samuel helped create a wonderfully masculine Harvest display for our table. It was so simple and very uplifting in "real life". We had so much fun finding unique fauna while working together.

Making opportunities with our sons is just as important as with our daughters. My boy was such a blessing as he cut sharp, thorny plants for me and helped carry in our bounty. Working with sons, gives them a tangible appreciation of the Lord's faithfulness throughout the changing seasons while touching God's living artwork. These are the memories that will delight a young man's soul... and will last a lifetime.

"his delight is in the law of the LORD; and in his law doth he meditate day and night.
And he shall be like a tree planted by the rivers of water, that bringeth forth his fruit in his season; his leaf also shall not wither; and whatsoever he doeth shall prosper"

Men's Elk Advance part (4) Navigation

2008-09-18T21:19:00.001-07:00

"Making Memories With Our Sons"

series has given opportunity to deepen relationships and develop skills on varying levels.

During our Men's Elk Advance, the men had to navigate through the wilderness in difficult terrain while climbing mountains and dangerous cliffs. One can easily get turned around unless a good compass reading is taken before starting out and at various points bringing one back on track.

Many men have lost their lives over navigating with only with their senses to guide them. This is true in the Christian walk. Many forget to study their bibles "our road map for life" and get their bearing before starting out. They easily get distracted, confused and off course by following their senses and the prevailing culture. The word of God is our navigational system giving points of reference for every thought and decision. How easy it is to loose our way especially during difficult valleys and rough terrain. We must be determined to take every thought captive to the obedience of Christ, looking only to the bible as our guide and only answer. As we do, everything becomes clear again and we will find our way back when lost in the dense forest of life. May God help us all to spend time reading our bibles, lining our thoughts, feelings and decisions with God's word alone. Then we will succeed in the hunt for true trophy, a life which glorifies God.

Men's Elk Advance part (3) Character Development

2008-09-14T15:05:00.000-07:00

I love this picture!!!

In the series of articles I am writing on "Making Memories with Our Son's" this picture surely fits!

Daniel Ruglowski had such a look of surprise as he accidently found himself at the bottom of a mountainside, slidding down in a funny way! These boys were amazing as they tredged through some of the most difficult terrain, floating their clothing while swimming across a large ice cold river, finding their bearings in the darkest of nights, avoiding treacherous cliffs and dangerous beasts around them . They were real troopers too as they followed my husbands "No Scent" rule for their food to keep the game unaware of their presence. Daniel, I think falling down the side of the mountain may have spilled the beans though! Sort of a bugle call all in itself! This picture is worth a thousand words. Any takers? Let's see who can come up with the best caption?

Much character development is learned when young men suffer difficulties while bowhunting. They develop proven qualities such a patience, endurance and longsuffering. These characteristics and more can be transferred in other aspects including spiritual matters, life difficulties, business or leadership skills. It has been said that some of the greatest strategist in history were young men practicing alone in the fields just like this one, pushing their endurance, stretching their abilities and developing the character needed to become the great leaders and world changers of all time.

Men's Elk Advance part (2) Preparation

2008-09-14T07:39:00.000-07:00

"Making Memories With Our Son's"

Bowhunting takes good planning and preparation

It is an "Extreme" form of hunting

Much skill is needed when bowhunting. One must be well prepared, willing to develop techniques and inner qualities that will overcome a multitude of obsticles. Attention to detail is a must! These men were well abled bowhunters and it was a privilege for my husband to share more of his skills with them. We were impressed with our guests mountain abilities. The younger men carried GPS systems while the more seasoned men relied on their personal skills and knowledge.

Our little boy learned so much on preparation, character and wise planning just by watching and observing his daddy and the other men. This too is part of...

"making memories with our son".

Each hunter was put to the test as it took much skill and endurance to navigate through the mountain terrain.

As Christians, we too must carefully prepare our walk with God, considering all aspects in lieu of scripture. We must pay attention to the details of God's word to overcome the many obsticles set before us. Daily we must prayerfully aligning our thinking with the knowledge of scripture and not our feelings. Even with faithful time invested in God's word, we too will be tested to see how well we will apply what we have learned. Too many believer's get pulled into comfortable Christianity which cater to their feelings or the "prevailing culture" as their guide. God's word is the only true navigational system through the rough terrains of life. His GPS (God's Perfect System) is the only reliable compass we will ever need.

Men's Elk Advance "Memories With Our Son's"

2008-09-12T17:54:00.001-07:00

"Here I am"

How lovely on the mountains

Are the feet of him who brings good news,

Who announces peace

And brings good news of happiness...

(Josh Ruglowski high upon the mountain looking for elk)

Who announces salvation,

And says to Zion, "Your God reigns!"

Listen! Your watchmen lift up their voices,

They shout joyfully together;

For they will see with their own eyes

When the LORD restores Zion

Isaiah 52:6-8

I am going to write a series of articles on "Making Memories with Our Son's". One way we were able to strengthen the father son ties was through a Men's Elk Hunt we hosted. I used a term "Advance" from a seminar my husband went to this past year. I rephrased our hunt in honor of the "Men's Advance" developed and hosted by the Serven Family. I liked the idea of men not retreating but going forward and that is exactly what my husband and a few other men did this hunting season.

Our family was blessed to serve these men for a special Elk hunt. It was a time to advance forward into the wilds reaching for higher ground. Our dear friends from Texas flew in and spent a week of hunting, fishing, horse back riding, swimming in ice cold mountain rivers and covering a great deal of terrain day and night. They even got some mountain biking in. What a time of special fellowship and manly activities while they stayed in a log cabin in the wilderness.

It was great fun getting creative with cooking game and lots of goodies hunters love. The men had great stories and gave me a fright or two with their high adventures and late night wonderings in the wilderness. God was so good and they came back in one piece with a happy tired that comes from a great experience. One story really jumped out when told by one of the men describing being sheltered in heavy branches and brush which he broke his way into. As he waited for elk he could hear in the distance a storm heading his way. As it rushed through the mountains he could hear it pass around him in the protection of his covering. It reminded me of how God is our shelter and our strength through storms of life. As we take refuge in Him we can find peace and protection even when all around us is raging.

I hope to post more pictures and give a birds eye view of our Men's Elk Advance as I call it. It was great time to be alone with the Lord and be rekindled afresh in Christ.

He only is my rock and my salvation,

My stronghold; I shall not be shaken.

On God my salvation and my glory rest;

The rock of my strength, my refuge is in God.

Trust in Him at all times, O people;

Pour out your heart before Him;

God is a refuge for us.

Psalm 62:6-8

The Best Laid Plans of Mice and Men...

2008-08-09T21:54:00.000-07:00

"The best-laid plans of mice and men

often go awry"

Do you ever have great plans all laid out and find no matter how carefully you prepare, something still goes wrong? Well, that is how it was with the new organizing and cleaning articles I endeavored to write. For those of you who have waited with bated breath for the next installment and wondered what happened?...Well, life happened. Isn't that the way it is? We set plans in motion, that are "good to go" then destiny knocks on the door and walks right in. It is the surprising manner which catches us off guard. Like as in our case, the house we were in suddenly sold with a very small window of time to find a new place and move out.

Being in a whirlwind of surprises, reminds me of those rare mornings when everything is off kilter. The normal routine of having a nice cup of tea with some quite time to order the day, takes on new wings and heads south. When this occurs, the hamster wheel is set in motion. We madly dash through the house, hair flying everywhere, bed and face unmade with children wondering who the lady is doing the 220 in the living room.

We never seem to catch up do we and spin our wheels wondering what in the world happened?

*commercial break* Though one rises at the same time, this rare occurance was once a normal lifestyle when working outside the home. Thank God for "Deliverance Out of Egypt!" *now back to our story*

Of course this is also the day when everyone decides to drop in for a visit. Murphy's Law has a good laugh. On this auspicious occasion the phone rings incessantly, the UPS driver knocks at the door, the Jehovah Witnesses "you" while forgetting their booklets, unexpected guests come to call and the home you so happily pride yourself in, looks like a tornado hit it. Then to top it all off~your wonderful children who were taught such great manners decide to take the day off with rumpled attitudes to match their choice of clothing. This is the moment we either laugh or cry and I think it best to laugh and learn. Learn to accept that life does not have to go our way, we may not always have it "all together" even with the best laid plans. There are circumstances beyond our control that do put us to the test. Like the old T.V. broadcasts with the high pitched warning,

"This is just a test of the emergency broadcasting system"

I do believe the Lord allows testing to help us evaluate "how we are doing". We must try to remember that when the term finals of life are due, it is time to compare ourselves with the conduct from the last evaluation. Like a parent who measures their childs height on the wall every year, their "little one" may still seem small from all appearances but when compared with the last measurement, "they grew a whole inch" and now it is time to rejoice!

If you are having one of those days or seasons when life seems to be throwing you fastballs and you are stricking out, remember from whence you came. You have grown a great deal over the years and are still growing even if it is in small measures. Be encouraged as you seek to surrender your will to God's plan, that you will succeed and have great innings again. You will be able to look back at this time and thank God for the adversity, the material which develops godly character that wins for Christ.

Let us also try to be flexible and not hold so tightly to the plans we have made, as it hurts so much when God has to pry it from our fingers. Corrie Ten Boom used this same analogy when God was teaching her to lay down her plans for His. This saying helped me a great deal over the years, to let go of "my expectations" and to trust God. Of course this is still being tested to remind me where I am at and where I am going.

"Consider it all joy, my brethren, when you encounter various trials,
knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance. And let endurance have its perfect result, so that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing. But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all generously and without reproach, and it will be given to him"

"Come now, you who say, "Today or tomorrow we will go to such and such a city, and spend a year there and engage in business and make a profit." Yet you do not know what your life will be like tomorrow. You are just a vapor that appears for a little while and then vanishes away. Instead, you ought to say, "If the Lord wills, we will live and also do this or that." James 4:13-15

A Homemaker's Prayer

2008-06-11T19:23:00.000-07:00

Dear Lord, help me to be a true

Homemaker!

May I have the strength and the will to do the humble tasks, that make a house a fit abode for my loved ones. Clean floors, shining china, dainty curtains, clean sheets, good food, a cheery fire-may my willing hands make these things possible.

But Father, let me remember that man does not live by bread alone, that material things but make a proper setting for life's real treasures of mind and spirit. Give me patience and understanding and kindness and humor and love in abundance, and charity for all. May the spirit of happiness, of joys and sorrows shared, of unity, of the peace that passeth understanding linger here! Help me to keep the path to Thee open and easy to find for the little ones in my keeping. And let there be laughter here.

And last, dear Lord, help me to remember the stranger without the door. May there be warmth enough on our hearth to share with him.

Is this too much for one so weak, so full of faults as I, to ask? At least it can be a goal toward which to strive, and to Thee all things are possible. Amen

-Mrs. Howard Peet, Minnesota

This was written in 1933 in a secular publication called

"The Farmers Wife"

I was raised in a region of the country that farmed floral seeds and produced fields of beautiful flowers spread over an entire valley. One had to travel up a long twisting road with steep curves to arrive at the highest level to view those magnificent acres. It was exciting reaching the top of our "Lookout Point" to see a colorful quilt, covering miles of land. This spread was "tucked in" to the very edges of our little town.

As one stands on higher ground, the scope widens and the topography becomes clearer. It is now easy to see the peaks and valleys, the path taken and the effort made to reach the crown. This view offers perspective as one considers the cost and time invested to create a bountiful yield. At the lookout, it is awe inspiring to realize those carefully planted seeds and faithful labor, produced such a beautiful harvest. A seasoned farmer thinks multidimensional, able to invision his yield long before tilling the ground. He considers all the possibilities and plans ahead preparing from varying levels and angles. He draws his plans from years of experience and the natural laws set by God. In the same way, a seasoned believer applies similar concepts. We do not rely on our experience but as we follow God's word, we see He is trustworthy and faithful. Over time we are able to understand Christ working in our lives. He tills the ground of our hearts, cultivating character, planting His word and pulling the weeds of our sin. In time this brings a bountiful yield both in our personal lives and family.

Through Christ, we are able to rise above our circumstances and widen our perspective. We therefore observe our spiritual fields objectively. It is not just a cliche that God alone gives "the increase". It is understood when we yield to the call as wives, mothers and daughters. These are hard won battles, fought daily as we bring our thoughts captive to the obedience of Christ. There is no place for arrogant commentator's, looking down on those working the land as the owner requests.

Last year I was asked by my dear friend, Lydia Sherman (LadyLydia) to write articles for a ministry called Guard the Home, to share what God taught me as an "older woman" and a Home School Veteran. We have spent a great of deal time brain storming over issues and ways to turn our culture back to the original plan for wives and daughter's. In this particular online ministy, we strive to encourage mother's with real issues and the various struggles raising a generation of godly children. We also attempt to help those currently in the thick of battle, who may be dealing with difficult situations. Through studying God's word, living life and working through the many cycles of raising children to adulthood, we have tread many miles in the shoes of a wife and mother. It gives opportunity to share lessons learned and hopefully edify, exhort and give practical help.

I do want to say this with a loving spirit~ many older woman have failed to fulfill their calling to younger women. They have left these dear one's to themselves, perhaps due to fear that their words will not be honored, welcomed or listened to. Maybe it has been pure laziness or self indulgence. These younger ladies have been discouraged and try to help each other by forming groups that give inspiration and answers. Yet it is a shame that "older women" who have been called to this task, neglect their responsibilites. I am not speaking to those who already raised children and now serve their family in another capacity~ which includes teaching younger women. I am addressing all who may need to rekindle and refresh their biblical mandate. May we let go of our past failings and press on. May we strive to be of service to our dear sister's who need our support and watch God move to win a generation back to Him. Let us see the blessing of the Lord!

"Brethren, I count not myself to have apprehended: but this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before,
I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus" Phil 3:13-14

A young married advisor giving counsel~not yet experienced~to younger ladies may still "ring true" as God's word is faithful, yet there is a particular reason why God directed the "older woman" to teach the younger women. When one has raised children to adulthood with all the varying trials, looking back is "realistic" with an understanding that is lived and felt. It also gives opportunity to the see end results of their work, to reassess what was successful or what should be adjusted with time to work it through. These lessons learned add a multifaceted perspective giving a fuller view. Maturity develops from time in the field, living it out day after day, season after season. I appreciate the excellent online ministries that bring in "older women" to give testimony and impart wisdom. This is wise stewardship of their efforts and time if they are prioritized with husband and family first.

Those of us who are older woman, realize the struggle to firmly hold our footing while the dust storms of adversity try to blind us off course. Keeping one's balance and biblical perspective is a prayerful challenge. Rocky terrain, difficult soil's, hard work in severe weather were our class assignments. We learned how children grew best in which types of soil and when to take them from the greenhouse to be cultivated in prepared ground. We also learned from our mistakes, what to avoid, how to handle pestilence and which weeds choke out the growth of our little sprouts. Many times we tripped over own feet or fell in vermin created holes. We spent time on our knees bruised and badly shaken, crying out to God. Christ proved ever faithful, our comfort, strength and our refuge. His love shown trustworthy through years of endeavors and ultimately He won the victory. An older woman is fully aware of her imperfections and failings without dwelling on them as she matures in Christ. It is by the Lord's mercy and grace that we eventually see the fruit of all our labors. Those who have not yet witnessed the harvest, continually labor on through planting, watering and cultivating by faith.

I would like to encourage all the "Older Women" who have a Titus 2:5 mindset and have raised adult sons and daughters in the same vision of faithfulness, to reach out to younger women. We are entrusted with this great responsibility and must consider this as a privilege along with a directive from God. Some of you may feel inadequate to teach younger women or that your failings in life disqualify you. Remember~ Christ is our redeemer, our healer and restores the years that the locusts have eaten away.

So, your life may not be perfect but the "Perfect One" our Lord Jesus, will use you to bless and encourage a younger women to catch a vision of femininity, biblical womanhood and motherhood. Who could better comfort a young struggling mother with compassion and understanding as one who identifies with this trouble? One who learned these lessons later in life, can gently and effectively point ways of avoiding these pitfalls. With love, you can exhort younger women to see feminism for what it really is and how to avoid it even in the church. Your kind words will give inspiration to raise godly daughters and sons with a multigenerational vision of biblical faithfulness.

You can do this in so many creative ways that do not have to take a great deal of time or cost to you and your family. How many opportunities do you have at church, homeschool events or even in town to humbly speak to a younger woman and ask her how she is doing? A listening ear will reveal ways that you can be a blessing. God will tell you what to say and you may save this dear one years of heartache. What a blessing you will be as you share what Jesus has taught you. So ladies, let's link hearts, arms and even some of our sites to each other and rise up against the sweeping winds that want to drive these younger ladies into worldliness and despair.

You are so important and the higher calling to an older woman is clear.

"Older women Likewise are to be reverent in their behavior, not malicious gossips, nor enslaved to much wine, teaching what is good, so that they may encourage the young woman to love their husbands, to love their children, to be sensible, pure, workers at home, kind, being subject to their own husbands, so that the word of God will not be dishonored. Titus 2:3-4

According to scripture, the passage of time brings forth wisdom, knowledge and biblical qualities that are beautiful in God's eyes as we endeavor to follow His plan. Like the farmer's wife, we continue to look upon the "Lord of the Harvest". Our time on earth is not yet complete, some of the fruits of our labors are still being worked out as we trust and expectantly wait upon Him. Jesus who began a good work, promises to faithfully complete it . "being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus" Phillipians 1:6

I also pray with God's help, to pass what I have learned from "time in the field", biblical study, my husband's wise counsel, lesson's from others and personal observations. I pray "Country Diary of a Twenty First Century Lady" has been an encouragement, inspiration and an applicable blessing to your life. A verse that has been my faithful friend over the years is~

"Not that I have already obtained it or have already become perfect, but I press on so that I may lay hold of that for which also I was laid hold of by Christ Jesus"
Phillipians 3:12

With this sincerely and humbly stated, I write to you.

In Christ's love~Lisa Hollinger

(Artwork by W.H. Hinton & Robert Duncan)

Our Beacon Of Hope

2008-06-05T11:31:00.000-07:00

The Keeper's House

A small boat scarcely seen,

In wild, torrential seas.

A rocky coast awaits!

Hear, cry... "Is this my fate?"

A beam of light shines through,

Life line of hope guides true.

He stands with open arms,

Haven's rest, fends the storms.

Whose calling from the sea?

Lord, Jesus "It is me".

Written by Lisa Hollinger

May 2008 copyright

If you have a family member, a friend or a situation that has caused you deep distress, you may be feeling overwhelmed...like a small boat engulfed by torrential waves tossing to and fro. Seeing disaster ahead, you frantically try to steer the boat away from its rocky demise. Shouting “May-day” Is there is no one to help, no one to calm the raging storm, no one to throw a life line if swallowed up or tossed overboard? There... through the fog... a flickering light, a faint hope calls through the darkness.

Jesus, Our “Beacon of Hope”.

There it is again! The light beam brightens, beckoning “come this way” a refuge awaits, a safe haven through the tempests. When we finally stop fighting the heavy seas of adversity and throw ourselves fully and completely into the Master’s arms, He will light our way.

"Master, carest thou not that we perish?

"When He got into the boat, His disciples followed Him. And behold, there arose a great storm on the sea, so that the boat was being covered with the waves; but Jesus Himself was asleep".
Have you tried to follow the Lord and the downpour of adversity became so great, that you felt as if you were going under? Do you ask yourself if God still cares, does he hear your prayers, or if you are being punished? Does God seem distant to you, leaving you in a boat, in an ocean of trouble without a paddle? Jesus is right there in the ship with you, just like He was with his disciples who were feeling some similar thoughts. Jesus rested, appeared like He was asleep. He understood all and had the power to calm the storm.

Jesus said, "Why are you so fearful?"

If you are experiencing heavy storms, especially from someone you care about or due to a difficult situation, you may feel pressed from all sides. Fear can hit you like a heavy wave; it floods and controls one's emotions. You must keep your eyes fixed upon the Lord and not lose sight of Him. If you allow bitterness or anger in, you will capsize. When Peter walked on water he became frightened. "But seeing the wind, and beginning to sink, he cried out, "Lord, save me! Immediately Jesus stretched out His hand and took hold of him, and said to him, "You of little faith, why did you doubt?" When Peter returned his eyes to Christ, he was delivered from sinking. Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus and you too will rise above your circumstances.

Today remember the Master and Commander of your life, the one called Jesus Christ. He will speak "peace" to your confusion, "stillness" to your chaos and "rest" for your weary soul. Let go of the helm of controls to Him who calms the sea. Let Him comfort you, love you and teach you through it all. Jesus is our refuge and our strength.

"And he arose, and rebuked the wind, and said unto the sea, Peace, be still. And the wind ceased, and there was a great calm. And he said unto them, Why are ye so fearful? how is it that ye have no faith? And they feared exceedingly, and said one to another, What manner of man is this, that even the wind and the sea obey him?"

Mark 4:38-41

"Beacon of Hope is a product of imagination and an allegory of faith. A small boat, barely visible on the horizon, rides heavy seas that surge and crash onto a rocky coast; the lighthouse beacon is its sole guide. The keeper's house is a safe haven against all storms. " — Thomas Kinkade

Let's Clean House

2008-05-13T23:19:00.000-07:00

We all need to find ways to lighten our burdens and refocus our resolve when life challenges come our way. Stress can be emotionally and physically draining when one is overwhelmed and it is important to find ways to constructively turn it around and accomplish something good through it all. It will lift the weary heart, bring clarity to mind, give energy back and bring order out of chaos.

I plan to write a series on "cleaning house" so to speak from a metaphorical perspective as well as physical. I believe it is important to seasonally clean our inner dwellings as well as our material households. We need to check for attitudes that may express one has “arrived” or beyond personal growth. Our "arrival" time will finale when we enter through glory's gate then we will be free at last. Mature Christian’s deeply and humbly understand this though it is easy to forget from whence they came especially after receiving great personal growth in the Lord.

Let us throw back the dusty drapes and let the light of Christ shine through our wintered windows. With God's grace we will enter from glory to glory, honoring him in every nook and cranny of our lives. I love these words my daughter Seanna wrote when she was 18 about this very idea.

“Throw back the drape of self-absorption,

That dims the room of needs unshown,

And let the light of true perception…

Reveal their face, that they be known.”

~ Author Seanna Hollinger

I hope to write this as a series and show you my Spring cleaning as I am able. I will share with you what God is teaching me through it and perhaps encourage you in the process. God will make beauty from ashes in every area of your life and I pray this will inspire you that you are not alone in this difficult yet rewarding challenge. We all need to let God's grace cleanse our inner dwelling and let him rearrange our furnishings if need be. Let us not give up just because we have made the same mistakes over and over again or when it seems we will never see lasting changes. So keep checking back as we "clean house" together!

The Legend Of Saint Valentine

2008-01-24T18:59:00.000-08:00

"Do not rebuke a mocker or he will hate you; rebuke a wise man and he will love you"

Proverbs 9:8

"From Your Valentine"

Happy Valentine's Day!

It should also be noted that scripture makes it clear that we come to God through Christ alone, not by any other, be on heaven or earth nor of one given a name by mortals of "Saint".

Jesus said to him, "I am the way, and the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father but through Me~John 14:6

"For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life~John 3:16

A New Year of Joy!

2007-12-30T13:44:00.000-08:00

A little boy

His daddies joy

A bright and happy day.

The snow to clear

A time of cheer

It lifts our hearts today.

And when it's done

A treasured fun

O' memories of play.

Our boy has grown

His daddies home!

A New Year's here to stay.

written by Lisa Hollinger

Our family sends you our happiest of greetings for a wonderful season of joyful memories to come. May you receive continued blessings to your home with a rekindled spirit, refreshed anew in the love of God. May your heart continually stay light and may God guide you with great wisdom and understanding throughout this coming New Year.

Philemon 1:6-8

The Great Trophy Hunt

2007-11-10T14:17:00.000-08:00

To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven...
and for our family, this time of year means...

(Brian's Hardwoods design)

Our mighty hunter is off in pursuit of "Great Trophy!"

What can that be? Well, for my rough and ruddy husband it is more then finding a "Boon and Crocket" or "Pope and Young" buck. It is greater then finding the all illusive trophy whitetail he's been after for years. It even goes beyond receiving inspiration while field testing his Hardwoods pattern or creating new ideas.

What is this amazing trophy?
It is the Lord Jesus Christ who is the Greatest Trophy a man can pursue. In receiving salvation from sin, gaining eternal life, he finds healing for the heart and home, giving him real hope for the future. This gain goes beyond seasons or time and is without measure. Inhaling the refreshment of hours spent alone with the Lord, the beauty of the outdoors and seeking wisdom from above is my husbands true treasure house. This quiet time with God makes him a great leader for our family.

An Outdoorsman After God's Heart
Archery develops disciplines which carry over into daily life. Bowhunting takes great skill with extreme patience, endurance, intense planning, self control, ability to overcome varying conditions, adversity, along with gaining many other character qualities. Young men could benefit from the life lessons learned in bowhunting and training in the field. Those who truly know my husband say he lives these qualities out and I agee. I believe bowhunting honed and sharpened his character through it's extreme discipline.

It has been said that love is spelled T-I-M-E. When a man keeps his family a priority all year long, spending quantity time with them, he will find great excitment for his hunting trips. Our home has been blessed with a man who faithfully commits his time to us. We are thankful for the many wonderful ways God has spoken through his hunting experiences and hours in the woods. He comes back refreshed "Super Charged" teaching many biblical principles, adventures and lessons learned. We have great fireside chats but what I love the most is what God teaches him personally through it all.

Let Us Stay On Target

So ladies, do not fret when your husband is gone for a season to hunt. You may find the Lord will speak to him in ways beyond anything you could imagine and in turn you will be blessed. It is such a good thing to be quiet with the Lord, your husband will be strengthend in his manhood, leadership and he will find refreshment for his soul.

"He will be like a tree firmly planted by streams of water,

Which yields its fruit in its season

And its leaf does not wither; And in whatever he does, he prospers."

Psalm 1:3

Gone From My Sight

2007-11-06T18:58:00.000-08:00

"I am standing upon the seashore...

A ship at my side spreads her white sails to the morning breeze and starts for the blue ocean.

She is an object of beauty and strength.

I stand and watch her until at length she hangs like a speck of white cloud just where the sea and sky come to mingle with each other.

Then someone at my side says: "There, she is gone!"

"Gone where?"

Gone from my sight. That is all.

She is just as large in mast and hull and spar as she was when she left my side and she is just as able to bear her load of living freight to her destined port.

Her diminished size is in me, not in her.
And just at the moment when someone at the my side says: "There, she is gone!" there are other eyes watching her coming, and other voices ready to take up the glad shout: "Here she comes!"

And that is dying."

Henry Van Dyke

...before the throne there was something like a sea of glass, like crystal

Revelations 4:6 (a)
Then the angel showed me the river of the water of life, as clear as crystal, flowing from the throne of God and of the Lamb down the middle of the great street of the city. On each side of the river stood the tree of life, bearing twelve crops of fruit, yielding its fruit every month. And the leaves of the tree are for the healing of the nations. No longer will there be any curse. The throne of God and of the Lamb will be in the city, and his servants will serve him. They will see his face, and his name will be on their foreheads. There will be no more night. They will not need the light of a lamp or the light of the sun, for the Lord God will give them light. And they will reign for ever and ever. The angel said to me,

"These words are trustworthy and true"...

Revelations 22:1-5

This article is in honor of those who have lost a loved one to death and in

Memory of Eleanor Daehnke

mother of my dear friend Barb Hansen

Designed For Him

2007-09-21T18:34:00.000-07:00

During discussions with my daughter and other unmarried women across the United States including various countries, it is amazing to hear the diverse interests young ladies hold as the Lord prepares them for their future callings. Considering the beautiful role given to adapt "help meet" to one's husband, it is so edifying to hear how the Lord is working this incredible plan in these dear girls. Many interests young women hold, may be the very encouragment needed to help their future husband "win the battle" to succeed in life.

I spent many years considering "why?"

I had interests in filmmaking, nature, business and various outdoor sports then later realized the Lord created me for my husband's good.

( Camouflage pattern designed by my husband Brian)

Brian is an amazingly talented inventor, businessman and Sportsman especially geared in the field of bow hunting whitetail and camouflage design. He loves nature, wildlife photography, creative design, invention, hunting, along with many other gifts of hospitality, counsel and peacefully refreshing the body of Christ. Feeling at one time that my interests and talents did not seem "real feminine", I recall praying that my desires would become more "homemakey"~my terminology.
As I embraced femininity, being a Titus 2:5 homemaker and accepted that these additional talents were from the Lord, I realized I didn't loose anything but was able to give so much more to my husbands calling. As I let go of "my" resolve and adapted "my" plans to his leanings then the Lord opened the windows of heaven and poured out such a blessing I have not been able to contain it. This strengthened my husbands life purpose for I truly understood his heart, his ideas and business with the desires God gave him.

It is such a joy to be designed especially for him as I yield to God's design for me.

So young ladies, take heart!

You may think you have a very odd interest when in fact...

it may be the very thing God gave to be a greater

"help meet" to that wonderful man He has in store for you.

To the wives who wonder what in the world I am talking about, I will ask you this...have you followed the biblical mandate to adapt yourself to your husbands plans? Have you set aside your own agenda? Have you given up "your rights" to have it your way yet? As you take the plunge surrendering your will to His, you will find true freedom, deeper joy, your highest calling and the greatest fulfillment you will ever know this side of heaven.

Then the LORD God said, "It is not good for the man to be alone; I will make him a helper suitable for him."

Genesis 2:18

By The Sea

2007-09-01T02:03:00.000-07:00

I have often wondered why the sea has such a hold, drawing me with the ebb and flow of the afternoon tides. Perhaps it is from my youth, living close to the Great Pacific with many happy days on its coastal playgrounds. As a young woman sitting for hours in soft sands, I pondered the magnificence and source of the sea's mesmerizing beauty with a force so powerful and peaceful, it calmed my soul.
I couldn't imagine anything more inspiring, expressing contrasting beauty and awe. God clearly displayed his splendor masterfully revealing His presence.

He is the creator of the universe with a

"controlled strength",

an incredible power and peace contained all in one.

Back when I did not understand God's plan for my life or know Christ as my personal Savior~the lifeline to my soul, I could only fathom a part of His truth. The ocean became an indescribable realization of God's presence that had no way of expressing itself except to honor what my words could not speak. I knew then that my first daughter would be named after the ocean sea glorifying our creator, His power, controlled strength with outpouring grace.

God shows his magnificence through His creations. Even those unaware of the scriptures can find their way to God through His mighty designs. We thus ponder, wonder and hopefully some will come to true humility and thankfulness.

May we give the God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob the glory for all His handiwork revealing He is truly the Master designer. May we worship the Creator and not the creation with a desire to honor and fully trust only in Him.

Peace and Calm

2007-09-01T00:11:00.000-07:00

Breathtaking Beauty

Traveling up the Oregon coast at this time of year has many unexpected rewards. The tourist season tapers off creating a quiet, serene drive. The migrating whales make their annual trek through century old territory. Wild seals in sunny spawned seas, float backside then quickly twirl catching their Pacific delights.

Heceta Lighthouse

One feels as if they stepped back in time to a slower pace of life. Taking in the oceanic air with it's enhanced blue sky, brightens one to embrace the beauty. A refreshing respite, strengthens and uplifts the soul.

Father and son rekindled afresh.

Journey to the HEART ♥

2007-08-31T23:20:00.000-07:00

It was truly "A Journey to the HEART" ♥

The Journey was a beautiful opportunity...

For our daughter and her team to explore various types of hearts, identify the attitudes of the heart that please God, enjoy a time of delighting in the Lord, experience special times of personally seeking God in creation, fellowship together, and journal their progress in a valuable 120-page syllabus. They enjoyed a beautiful ten day retreat in the Northwoods of Michigan lodged by the lake in which they studied, prayed, played and sought God together as one team.

High Mountain Adventures

2007-08-31T22:05:00.000-07:00

This summer has been quite busy with many happy moments along the way. Here are some shots of our daughter's Montana adventures with dear friends old and new.

Seanna with friends visiting the Control Tower as Bryce
piloted them over the mountains.

Seanna on a modern montana trail ride.

A lot of hooting and hollering went on this evening.

Beautiful handmaiden's of the Lord.

What a joyful time!

Up...up...and away!!! Hold on to your headsets...

Who is that piloting that plane?!
Is it a man, is it a bird...No it's super, multitalented Bryce!
Thank you Bryce for keeping those side turns and aerial dynamics to a minimum. Whew! Pass me the smelling salts.

Here is Seanna with friends, Bryce (pilot), William and Sarah.
It looks like they had a great flight.

Blessings In The Boundaries

2007-08-10T01:56:00.001-07:00

I have enjoyed sharing how God builds biblical standards setting boundaries for our greater good. Thus He fulfills His highest purpose for our lives. This is always out of love with greater spiritiual protection in mind, though it may seem difficult to understand

"The blessing in the boundaries".

I also elected to transfer my articles on "Standards~ Part 1 & Part 2 to the following site http://savethehome.blogspot.com/ My husband and I believed these articles were best suited to the "Guard The Home" site which I am a contributing writer. I hope you will enjoy these new writings and many of the others that pertain to saving and guarding Christian homes.

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2007-08-02T07:06:00.000-07:00

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2007-07-11T21:36:00.001-07:00

Protecting Our Children's Heart

2007-04-06T21:01:00.000-07:00

It is amazing how easy it is to miss the mark when it comes to protecting our children

There are times when one can weary in trying to keep children set apart for a higher standard. Outside criticism can plant seeds of distruction, weakening the beautiful rose of conviction before it fully blooms. The onslaught of attacks on families of vision, wear and tear some into buying into the belief that they may be depriving their children from a perceived need.

Our children may also begin to feel sorry for themselves thinking "if only" such and such were different then they would truly be happy. We must teach our children to line their thinking with scripture and not giving in to feelings that can be fickle. We know the bible clearly states that our happiness is not external but in our relationship with Christ alone. The joy of the Lord is our strength and is long lasting~not dependent upon our outside circumstances.

It is a dangerous thing to cave in to what others think and we must be on guard of our own personal pressures that we allow in or catering to our children's whims and whines. How many times parents have paid the price for giving in, even on a small scale to these emotions.

Many times the very thing their children think they need is the cause for future stumbling and destruction to their lives

Be prayerful in everything. Consider if the ideas to make your children happy line up with scripture. If you do proceed but later find error in your decision, don't wait but quickly remedy it. Take your child out of the situation before it is too late and permanent damage is done. How many parents I have met who held steadfast to a decision only later regret not changing their minds for fear of their child's unhappiness. In the end, their sons or daughters minds were so altered that they could not win them back. In the long run the happiness they were so afraid to ruin, turned out to be a lifelong loss for all involved.

I want to encourage all parents to be steadfast and immovable. Do not let your guard down or let your children wonder away. The term parent comes from the Latin word "Parentis" and "Altor" which means protector with a father like term within its context . We do not give up that role just because our children appear capable or because of pressures beyond what we perceive could be endured. We must brave up and trust the God who gave us this high calling and commission to train "our" children.

What works for one family may not be best for yours...

Outsiders may believe they have your children's best in mind. They want to redirect your parenting to something else and try to counsel you or your children on what they think would be better. Yet deep down inside you lack peace about this counsel, for many times it is not God's plan and may be the worst direction for your family. Your child was given just for you to parent and not someone else. God places within your heart what He knows is best for your particular situation. No one else will understand like the Lord what is in the heart of your child. He gave you to be the parent to this particular one, not someone else who wasn't given the same instructions. What may seem overprotective to an outsider may be just what was needed to help your child overcome a weak area in their lives. Trust God, believe in His word and let the world teach their own children.

I have met so many individuals who want to counsel other people's children to their ideals and unresolved hang ups, only to ruin a wonderfully trained young person or weaken an already struggling youth. I caution you to be wary of outsiders. Especially as your young person gets older. Then the real trouble can begin. There are plenty who believe they are doing God's duty, wanting to take a great young man or young lady and give them advice. Many times it undermines your family values and your husbands God given direction for your family. Parents need to prepare for this and discuss this with their children to be aware of. It will save years of heartache for everyone involved. Help your children to politely walk away from counsel given from others without parents knowledge, presence, approval or does not line up with your family directives. Especially as your young person is about to graduate from home schooling, there needs to be a spiritual awareness that this is when the heaviest warfare for your children's souls can get intense. Everything may come against them in various forms to undermine years you as parents have invested.

Many home schooler's loose their integrity, strength of character and close walk with the Lord shortly after graduating. Many times after entering into the workforce or college they can easily begin compromising, become discouraged and loose heart.

Even the strongest of young adults can loose their foothold and become shaken

We parents must not walk into this realm with blinders on, thinking our kids were so well trained and strong that nothing will move them. We need to have a warfare mind set and be prepared.

My husband uses this term "Preparation is the prerequisite to success". I totally agree with him and wise parents will foresee these inevitable's. Don't get caught off guard! Wisely prepare and don't give up overseeing your children just because they have graduated. Until our daughter's are married or our sons have an honoring spirit and proving they can run their own households, it is prudent to keep your guard up. Don't be caught asleep at the helm. Being a "Parentis" isn't for the faint hearted or for the short term. It is a life long commitment though it changes dimensions as our children enter new seasons of their lives. Even when our children are married with their own households, our calling as "Parentis" is still active. Now as one of great prayer support for the protection of our children and the generations to come. We are always ready to give counsel when asked and there to help whenever needed. Let us not grow weary in our duties or crumble under the pressures of life. Let us be wise and prudent in our thinking looking beyond today's difficulties and prepare to fight the good fight until the end.

A prudent man sees evil and hides himself, The naive proceed and pay the penalty.

Proverbs 27:12

To Everything There Is A Season,

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Spring has broken it's silence and warmed our hearts again only to be shadowed by a light blanket of winter reminders not quiet ready to leave.

Victorian Trading Co.

What a nice surprise to have a visit from our old friend and comrade Sir Winter of the Northlands. How edifying it was to watch this feathery like Manna from heaven gently flow down to earth. Calm reminders of how blessed we are to see such beauty on the mountains and evergreens this past season. It was one last downy hug before saying "I'll see you next Fall".

Life seems to be so much that way, that we live in seasons. When one feels like they are in a continual Winter, it is only a matter of time before brightened hopes spring forth again like tulips reawakend pressing forth and upward. That is our hope that God gives us. When life throws unexpected challenges and it feels like a long winter is never ending, then God reminds us that He has a plan. One that is for our very best that if we are patient, trusting Him while resting in the silent times, we can find joy and beauty in the midst of it all. Many lessons can be learned if we stop feeling sorry for ourselves and listen quietly. How good God is to teach us in the times of stillness. Then when the time is right and the lessons have been learned to the point allowed, we get a glimmer of Spring. A happy reminder that God brings life from what seemed empty, cold and quiet. It wasn't loss after all but a time to learn, a time to sit and listen.

I thank the Lord for seasons of setting me apart. It always seems so lonely during spiritual winters yet this snowy blanket brings rest and hope. It is always good to be alone with the Lord and wait upon Him.

My soul, wait thou only upon God; for my expectation is from him.

Psalm 62:5

Lead A Quiet Life

2007-02-20T23:16:00.000-08:00

Victorian Trading Co.

Isn't that the way it is? We start to get caught up on all that is planned, finding projects put aside in order to complete the goals set. Resolved to update my blog, I found that in order to keep the balance of life from crowding other priorities, my enjoyable endeavor had to conclude without posting all that was hoped~ as time I set had run out. In order to finish blogging the past year (for those interested), a link to some dear friends who did a write up on our "Family Holiday Together" was included with pictures to share! (be sure and click the "Merry Sleighrider's" video on the highlighted links).

Reflecting upon what God taught while living in the Midwest, I am trying to take these hard earned lessons from Philliapian 4 and still apply them today.

Not that I speak in respect of want: for I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, therein to be content.
I know how to be abased, and I know also how to abound:

in everything and in all things have I learned the secret both to be filled and to be hungry,

both to abound and to be in want.

I can do all things in him that strengtheneth me

We experienced in one region of the country the gament of abundant fellowship and all the"busy-ness" (as I call it) that would be ever desired while in another area, the abasement of what seemed complete stillness. In that place, it seemed like all the fellowship we had was with the fields and the neighborhood cattle. Yet, my bible tells me in Psalms 50~

"For every beast of the forest is Mine,

The cattle on a thousand hills.

I know every bird of the mountains,

And everything that moves in the field is Mine"

..."Offer to God a sacrifice of thanksgiving

And pay your vows to the Most High;

Call upon Me in the day of trouble;

I shall rescue you, and you will honor Me.

From that time of stillness, we learned the importance of trusting our troubles to Him who understands, thanking God for allowing us to let silence reign. We learned that we get more accomplished bearing much fruit during times of quietude. The balance was to have meaningful wisely timed fellowship, limit our activities and keep a quiet home. At least for our family, we hear the Lord clearer in this lifestyle. We love the beautiful place we live in and my husband's wise directive for our family is~

.... to make it your ambition to lead a quiet life and attend to your own business and work with your hands, just as we commanded you,
so that you will behave properly toward outsiders and not be in any need.

1 Thessalonians 4:11

What wonderful, beautiful lessons learned and what I am now writing came from the choices we have made from those trials so many years ago. To keep the balance in our family I will complete an already belated 2006 year and take some time off. As our good friends proceeded the same, now is the time for a "Sabbatical." When "Lord willing" future blogging resumes, the updates of all 2007 activities may just be the "happenings" of the present.

What a joy it has been to keep in touch with all of you, meeting new friends and those of many years while sharing a "Country Diary Of A Twenty First Century Lady".

There is an appointed time for everything.

And there is a time for every event under heaven...

Ecclesiastes 3:1

~May the Lord Bless you and keep you~

Noble Daughter's

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"Many daughters have done nobly,

But you excel them all"

These daughter's attended the Entrepreneurial Bootcamp given by the Vision Forum ministries. They serve their fathers in various capacities in the home and "So Much More", assisting him in business and through using their gifts and creative endeavor's helping him succeed

The Botkin daughter's serve their father in a multitude of ways including assisting in filmmaking, writing, public speaking and various homebased work.

Our daughter Seanna brings great strength to our home with her excellent business sense along with sharing her creativity in our homebased companies.

Very special friends~Miss Seanna Hollinger with Miss Elizabeth and Miss Anna Sophia Botkin

Miss Torres has such a gift of encouragment and represents her father through kind acts of service
and by her enthusiastic edification of others.
She uplifts everyone she meets.

Miss Hollinger with Miss Lourdes Torres

Having a "Kick"serving together!

Miss Spradling is a wonderful cook~ supporting her father with creative home management skills, refreshing him after a long day, giving hospitality and a"ready to go" attitude attending multiple functions with her dad. She represents him well with her pleasant, accepting personality, a willing heart placed under her parents direction.

Miss Christin Spradling with Miss Seanna having a "kick"serving together at the Bootcamp

Sweet Fellowship Together

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But it is you, a man my equal,

My companion and my familiar friend;

Psalm 55:13

Two In Blue~ Noah Logan & Samuel Hollinger

Reining Beauties

Miss Andrea and Miss Kelly Reins with (center) Miss Seanna Hollinger

We who had sweet fellowship together

Walked in the house of God in the throng

Psalm 55:14

Seanna with The Spradling Family

(far right to left)Miss Christin, Mrs. & Mrs. David Spradling

Young Entrepreneur's In Progress

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These young men not only look alike but are being trained as men of vision, valor and victory.

A friend loveth at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.

Proverbs 17:17

Design On A Dime!

2007-01-19T11:19:00.000-08:00

As I continue my year in review...

what a joyful time Seanna and I had playing"Game Masters"

for the bridal shower of the former Miss Kelly Brown~now Mrs. Peter Bradrick.

How much fun it was to see these creative ladies come up with amazing designs in less then 5 minutes.

Drum roll please...

The Award Winning Design

(Miss Jamie Lavin with her white Charmin French, Italian motif~Par Excellence!!)

God's Perfect Timing

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~Miss Genevieve Smith from New Zealand is a very special young lady~

I met Miss Genevieve Smith several years ago in the most unexpected way~in an elevator! We didn't really even know each others names at the time. During our joyful conversation, we realized that we were kindred spirits and that God had something in store for the future. Though living in opposite corners of the world, the Lord brought us back together for a very meaningful purpose. Little did I know Genevieve would happen to be in Texas at the same time as the Lord lead us there for various reasons which included the wonderful fellowship we needed. God's timing is so perfect as Genevieve, Seanna and I spent electrifying times together discussing an array of frontline topics for "Today's" young women and what we have all learned to best exhort and encourage them. I can still see the sparks of enthusiasm flying upwards.

The Lord impressed upon my heart, the importance of the spiritual warfare that young women needed to be aware of and how to stand against the onslaught that opposes their resolve.

Our family also was attending an entrepreneurial "bootcamp" at the time and the thought came to me that young women needed an intensive strengthening session, one that supported their parents years of hard working endeavors to train them in biblical womanhood. This was an era of change, for young women to soundly stand up against the undermining efforts, which defeat so many homeschool daughters. Then the Lord placed upon my heart the "Princess with A Purpose", "Titus 2:5 mini bootcamp" a "High Tea Era" seminar. Genevieve and Seanna were onboard, ready to go with this team effort.

Our talks were expecially timely and edifying for Seanna, as Genevieve shared her testimony, her heart and personal challenges in such a way that deeply ministered and inspired her spirit. We knew that all we discussed could not be kept to ourselves and that it was meant to be shared with other young women to strengthen their resolve in being Proverbs 31 and Titus 2:5 women. Now this wonderful seminar the Lord gave us in the United States, is now being taught to young women in New Zealand and multiplying through His wonderful plan.

'For I know the plans that I have for you,' declares the LORD, 'plans for welfare and not for calamity to give you a future and a hope.

Jeremiah 29:11

2007-01-18T10:10:00.000-08:00

(Mrs. Hollinger with Miss Smith)

Iron sharpeneth iron; so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend.

Proverbs 27:17

Women

Vision

(Miss Seanna Hollinger with friend Miss Genevieve Smith)

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How do "today's" young ladies prepare to be a Titus 2:5 woman and hold steadfast in our modern society?

(Miss Genevieve Smith and Miss Seanna
Hollinger)

This question along with many more contemporary issues were discussed and answered.

What "special tea" cakes

Miss Hap

had some very surprising insights for todays young women.

Oh The Joy!!

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Along with our serious chats, we had a great deal of humor, laughter and joy!

Reflection

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Vignette of Miss Seanna Hollinger
(picture designed by Mrs. Lisa Hollinger~January 2007)

Contemplating how to help unmarried women answer the hard questions as they "choose" to remain at home "prepared" for marriage while living out their Proverbs 31, Titus 2:5 responsibilites within their sphere of assignment. We evaluted the concerns that young ladies and mother's from all over the world struggle with from the onslaught they receive over this issue. We brainstormed and had exciting discussions while interviewing with our dear friend Miss Genevieve Smith of New Zealand. The result~An edifying time, a wonderfully taped discussion and the inspiration for a purposeful young ladies seminar.

"Princess With A Purpose"

"High Tea Era" (Tiara)

& Titus 2:5 ~Mini boot camp

Description of a Worthy Woman

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Genesis 1:27-28 says:
So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them.
And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth.

It is God's design for mankind to be fruitful, faithfully subduing realms as defined within biblical jurisdictions. As married women, we are called to a high and noble purpose. We are "help meets", adapting our lives to and reinforcing our husbands leadership. Similarly to that of a Vice President, the vital role of support and adaptability, fortifies the position of the President.

For the unmarried daughter, she strengthens her mother's arms through harmonious cooperation, patterning biblical womanhood, which includes the all-important role of assisting her father. Taking up her father's vision as her own, embraces God's crowning plan as a glorious help meet to her future husband.

Through biblical leadership, we take responsibility realigning ourselves to the directives given through God's word and our husbands. Honoring the morals, principles, standards and values set for the home, we develop them through teaching and ministering to those placed under our designated sphere.

"Dominion Oriented Femininity", embraces the highest role for women, trusting God in His greatest fulfillment of our souls. When we apply these principles, the home becomes a bastion of peace with loving order.

"Dominion Oriented Femininity" takes responsibility for those areas, not neglecting our roles or position. There are various facets to each point of assignment which many women have not been fully trained or aware of. Though our husbands have great responsibility, lack of accepting this high call has great multigenerational impact. As we take back the areas missed, neglected or unaware of, we are advancing our homes to the loving order and solidity as God originally designed.

Titus 2:5

Description of a Worthy Woman:

~Areas of Dominion with husbands blessing~

An excellent wife, who can find?

For her worth is far above jewels.

The heart of her husband trusts in her,

And he will have no lack of gain.

She does him good and not evil

All the days of her life.

She looks for wool and flax

And works with her hands in delight.

She is like merchant ships;

She brings her food from afar.

She rises also while it is still night

And gives food to her household

And portions to her maidens.

She considers a field and buys it;

From her earnings she plants a vineyard.

She girds herself with strength

And makes her arms strong.

She senses that her gain is good;

Her lamp does not go out at night.

She stretches out her hands to the distaff,

And her hands grasp the spindle.

She extends her hand to the poor,

And she stretches out her hands to the needy.

She is not afraid of the snow for her household,

For all her household are clothed with scarlet.

She makes coverings for herself;

Her clothing is fine linen and purple.

Her husband is known in the gates,

When he sits among the elders of the land.

She makes linen garments and sells them,

And supplies belts to the tradesmen.

Strength and dignity are her clothing,

And she smiles at the future.

She opens her mouth in wisdom,

And the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.

She looks well to the ways of her household,

And does not eat the bread of idleness.

Her children rise up and bless her;

Her husband also, and he praises her, saying:

"Many daughters have done nobly,

But you excel them all."

Charm is deceitful and beauty is vain,

But a woman who fears the LORD,

she shall be praised.

Give her the product of her hands,

And let her works praise her in the gates.